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To think this was wrong of him.

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Lilianadaisy99 · 23/05/2025 22:21

My boyfriend and I stayed in a hotel last weekend. We'd been on a night out. I was very drunk, he wasn't as he doesn't drink.

I fell straight to sleep and woke up in the early hours to use the bathroom. Because I was still drunk and it was so dark and unfamiliar, I couldn't get my bearings. I did stumble around the room and accidentally woke him. He helped me find the bathroom.

I then went back to bed. It's come back to me in flashbacks that we had sex once I got back into bed. I don't recall much at all. I asked him the next day and he confirmed we did. I also asked why he thought it was OK as I was so out of it. I rarely get like that. I'm angry with him, but blame myself also for drinking too much.

Am I wrong to be angry?

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FortyElephants · 28/05/2025 02:17

IHE · 24/05/2025 11:15

If I'm so drunk I can't remember giving you £50, that doesn't mean you stole it.

If I willingly take £50 from someone who is so drunk they don't really know what they're doing then I'm taking advantage of them and shouldn't take their £50 until they sober up and I can be sure they want me to have it!

SportGirl · 28/05/2025 18:02

Smithey885 · 26/05/2025 12:38

Yes, but how do you tell if someone is too drunk? I’m not trying to start an argument or say it was right or wrong, but some people can come across as being relatively sober even when they’ve drunk lots . For all we know, she could have asked for sex, he could have said no, she could have then persuaded him she was fine and acted more sober than she actually was.

Think it is clear she was too drunk to consent here, she dont even remember it

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