Sexting and flirting

[Postman007]

Having been married for a while now I really miss the honeymoon period, the sexting and when were are not together telling eachother what we want to do to each other and the odd picture. My wife being happy with me buying her new underwear now it’s just why on earth would I buy that, even for valentines I got her some nice underwear to try and spice things up and she said she would wear it for me and suck my cock like she used to (blowjobs are quite rare now 😂) it never happened.
The other day we had some very light flirting and I thought I would try and push it a little further and sent my wife a pic! Bad idea and was told to never send her a pic again.
I know I’m not the only one going through but how good were the start of relationships 😂

@Postman007 dont go for the past…try something different…have you openly chatted and shared with DW about her fantasies and hers?

This is quite a timely post for me because my husband usually refuses any photos and would run a mile if I tried any form of sexting with him. However this morning he actually asked me over the phone to send him a photo at work. Completely out of the blue for me 😂

So don’t give up hope that she might change her mind and enjoy a bit of sexting etc in the future. Not everyone likes it and some find it really awkward/silly and others prefer just a photo over sexting or vice versa. Or nothing at all.

The important thing is to respect her wishes - I never would send my husband anything if he didn’t ask. I find it a bit odd as I think most men would love their wives to send them the odd sexy photo but I guess, as I said, it’s not for everyone 😁

luckily husband if you send him a pic, can only imagine how great it was 😉
she used to love receiving pics and videos and would occasionally send them aswell but she said that changed once living together as she no longer sees a need for it.
I always respect what she says but sometimes you need to test the water when it’s been a while to see if it can help spice things up again.

How times change, yes the early days were definitely full of sex, but to send a pic would have involved taking it, finding someone who would actually develop it and then sending it , probably take a week or more if not arrested for sending obscene material in the meantime

@AlexandrinaH

Congratulations on your photo request we’re still on emojis but can’t maybe on day but until then emojis it is 😉

When my OH away I sometimes send a pic of what I’m wearing to the gym. Then he’ll ask to see what’s underneath 😂

Emojis have their place!

Good luck 😉

Depends how long ago you’re referring to - I had a camera phone 20 years ago 😂.

I’m not old enough to have taken provocative photos on a Kodak and strolled into my local chemist with the roll 😂

I know my sister had photos of her boyfriend from around the late 90s that might have raised a few eyebrows when they were being developed! I can imagine it was a nerve wracking experience handing that film over 😬

I would love my husband to be a bit more confident of asking for stuff like this.

I’d like him to want lingerie pics etc but he just wants the nakedness really

We all love a good underwear pic, it’s always a good tease for what’s to come

Definitely more than 20 years, no mobile phones at all, would 100% have needed a picture on a camera then taking it somewhere to be developed, would have got top less shots of DW printed with some smirks when you picked them up, but the infamous dick pic, you’d have had to do some serious searching for someone to develop that, it was looking at the real thing then relying on memory in between