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Recently divorced and found something ... new!

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chroniclesd · 07/05/2025 13:33

Hey Mumsnet, posting this as I've tbh my mind is blown!

I am recently divorced, was married for 15 years from 25 - 40. Ended fairly amicably, no kids. Previous to ex DH I had only slept with a couple of guys, and it was more of a fumble than anything full on. So I really only know sex with one guy. It was always good but nothing earth shattering. But I also felt like I didn't really have a high libido compared to some, so I didn't feel like I was missing anything in particular.

So I recently felt Iike I was ready to put myself out there again and went on Hinge and dated a few guys. The only one I felt properly physically attracted to (tall, nice dad bod) took me out a few weeks ago and we basically haven't left the bedroom since! He has a much, much larger penis than my ex and basically I now know what people mean when they say size matters. I don't want to be mean about my ex but the extra few inches are making a difference in ways I did not know was possible!

Has anyone had this experience? It feels like sex is two different things with this guy compared to before. I feel full and stretched and can't stop thinking about his massive dick!

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GoldenOwl0 · 07/05/2025 13:45

Nice weather we are having today

Reidwood · 07/05/2025 14:04

@chroniclesd glad you have found one of us girthy and honestly saying it does make a difference👍🏿 yiu noticed how many different positions you are able to enjoy him✊🏿

Gymbunny2025 · 07/05/2025 14:18

A big/tall guy with a decent size 🍆 is my happy place. If I was ever single again I would never compromise on either!!! So happy you are enjoying one too ❤️

MsDDxx · 07/05/2025 14:40

GoldenOwl0 · 07/05/2025 13:45

Nice weather we are having today

😂

It was all going fairly well until the last paragraph - which makes it sound like it’s been written by a guy! Sorry OP if it’s all above board - have fun!

AnonAnonmystery · 07/05/2025 14:44

Gymbunny2025 · 07/05/2025 14:18

A big/tall guy with a decent size 🍆 is my happy place. If I was ever single again I would never compromise on either!!! So happy you are enjoying one too ❤️

That’s my partner lol, it’s perfect as I am petite. Works really well for both of us.

Gymbunny2025 · 07/05/2025 14:49

Same for us @AnonAnonmystery☺️

Gymbunny2025 · 07/05/2025 14:52

Well he’s not got a ‘massive dick’ but that would be too big for me! Just a perfect decent size!

chroniclesd · 07/05/2025 14:54

Gymbunny2025 · 07/05/2025 14:52

Well he’s not got a ‘massive dick’ but that would be too big for me! Just a perfect decent size!

how many inches is actually massive? I don't have much to compare it to or a ruler to hand lol

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AnonAnonmystery · 07/05/2025 14:54

@chroniclesd sex after divorce it the best, it’s sounds like what me and a few friends describe as being “dickmatised”.

AnonAnonmystery · 07/05/2025 14:55

chroniclesd · 07/05/2025 14:54

how many inches is actually massive? I don't have much to compare it to or a ruler to hand lol

My partners is easily 8-9 inches and has girth too!

chroniclesd · 07/05/2025 14:56

AnonAnonmystery · 07/05/2025 14:54

@chroniclesd sex after divorce it the best, it’s sounds like what me and a few friends describe as being “dickmatised”.

haha consider me dickmatised for sure

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chroniclesd · 07/05/2025 14:56

AnonAnonmystery · 07/05/2025 14:55

My partners is easily 8-9 inches and has girth too!

you've got me imagining now!

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yorkshireteabagman · 07/05/2025 15:19

I'd be very surprised if this wasn't a bloke

Gymbunny2025 · 07/05/2025 16:40

yorkshireteabagman · 07/05/2025 15:19

I'd be very surprised if this wasn't a bloke

Well even if it gets deleted it has given us the word dickmatised 🙏😂

yorkshireteabagman · 07/05/2025 17:07

Gymbunny2025 · 07/05/2025 16:40

Well even if it gets deleted it has given us the word dickmatised 🙏😂

A nice addition to the vocabulary. And some bonus massive dick chat on a Wednesday afternoon 🍆Every Wednesday needs one

SomeDanceToForget · 07/05/2025 18:10

MsDDxx · 07/05/2025 14:40

😂

It was all going fairly well until the last paragraph - which makes it sound like it’s been written by a guy! Sorry OP if it’s all above board - have fun!

Yep, just another bloke.

GentlemanJay · 07/05/2025 23:13

Bloke warning!

NorthernLights5 · 08/05/2025 20:40

Omg try harder of you're trying to pretend to be a women! Women don't speak like this!

EddieX20 · 10/05/2025 13:31

NorthernLights5 · 08/05/2025 20:40

Omg try harder of you're trying to pretend to be a women! Women don't speak like this!

That's true , but he wouldn't understand that unfortunately.

fourelementary · 11/05/2025 00:17

Having had great sex with a man (ONS) with a small penis I can assure you size doesn’t matter that much to most women- that’s what dildos or toys are for if that’s your bag.
Great sex is so much more than just “filling a hole” 😆

OpheliaNightingale · 11/05/2025 17:26

@chroniclesd I know exactly what you mean. I’m in a different position though, I’m leaving a relationship with someone with a huge penis! Well over 8 inches and girthy too. It’s the only thing I’ll miss about him!

chroniclesd · 11/05/2025 18:05

OpheliaNightingale · 11/05/2025 17:26

@chroniclesd I know exactly what you mean. I’m in a different position though, I’m leaving a relationship with someone with a huge penis! Well over 8 inches and girthy too. It’s the only thing I’ll miss about him!

Is this gonna be a dealbreaker for you do you think? I can't really imagine sex without it now!

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OpheliaNightingale · 12/05/2025 13:39

@chroniclesd going forward I’m looking forward to having other needs met, such as emotional availability, romance, someone to have my back, that kind of thing..

chocolatelover91 · 01/06/2025 00:02

You lucky gal!

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