Boyfriend has asked me to give him a dirty phone call

[JoannWithoutAnE]

Hi MN'ers!

I'm in a relatively new relationship and my boyfriend has asked me to give him a dirty phone call!

I really want to do this for him but how do I start it off?

If he’s done it before and you haven’t, you should ask him to take the lead, and help build your confidence. It’s great fun, if you like that sort of thing 😆

He's asked me to call him Friday lunchtime as a pre-Friday night date thing. I'm already looking forward to Friday night!! We are both quite broad-minded but this is something that I haven't done in previous relationships - he has said he will reciprocate when I've made my lunchtime call!

Me and my wife used to have ‘dirty calls’ when we first started dating, typically it would be after a few drinks. I loved it and it always built up the excitement of seeing eachother. Sort of miss it to be honest 😂😩

I think it's tricky to tell you exactly what to say/how to start off as we all get turned on by different things. I used to start by telling him what I was wearing/not wearing, I'd tell him how hard my nips were, I was feeling damp between my thighs etc I'd tell him what I wanted to do to him later, what I wanted him to do to me and depending on if he knew where I was as I was making the call or not I'd tell him I was touching myself (doesn't really work if he knows you're in a busy place or your mam is downstairs making lunch etc!)
What works when you are together? What gets him going? Basically just describe that if you're feeling shy/nervous but if you get into it and enjoy it, it can be a good way of letting him know exactly how to hit the right spots for you, things you'd like to try.
You might feel a bit silly/self conscious at first but just have fun with it and whilst it's great you're up for trying it for him if you find that you don't enjoy it that's ok too and you can just tell him that it's not for you