How often

[Makeitpossible]

Sorry if too personal but how often do you and your partner have sex. I thought DH and I were pretty average 2/3 times a week but then a girl at work said her and her DH are at least once a day.
it got me thinking what about others 🫣

Once a week like it or not!

I would love it 2/3 times a week.

Once every 8 weeks or so.

It doesn’t matter how often other people have sex, all that matters is how often you and your DH want sex and to make sure as best you can that you are both happy with the amount of sex you are having.

my last relationship ( just under three years ) we would have sex on average 2 or 3 times a day.

i know that I'm very unlikely to have many other relationships where that could/would be replicated and as long as we were both happy with that it really doesn’t bother me.

2-3 times a week after 18 years together, it was probably 4x a week for the first several years though

2/3 times a week after 41 years together and still enjoying it.

Everyone is different, there certainly is no norm,, every day may be the norm for some, once a year for others, just enjoy it

Not your question, but 2/3 times a week seems an amount that you shouldn’t feel worried about.

if you want more, or less, both are ok, but 2/3 times a week is heathy

Unfortunately sexless at the moment. Just doesn't seem to want it. Whilst I seem to be going through a needing it faze haha

Get ready for lots of PM's!

Haha it's not that bad, but fuck it I could do with some attention anyways!

Sexless relationship is difficult especially if its not on your part, then you question yourself

You may have to invest in a few toys

Unfortunately about once every 3 weeks. Wife just isn’t as interested as she once was.

We have "sex" sometimes twice a month , very occasionally 3 but it has been once and month, that is including PIV, which is very rarely due to discomfort on her part due to traumatic birth of our kids. But we play with each other in place of actual penetration, I'm not complaining, we have intimacy and that keeps us happy.

Unfortunately sexless at the moment, I could cope but no affection too is the worst bit.

Female partner has no interest at the moment, hoping time giving space and time with no pressure will help eventually.

We are usually 2-3 times a week, and that's normally once in the week and once or twice at the weekend. If we are on holiday we normally do it more. I still masturbate also, often daily and it's just something I started doing when I was younger and don't seem to have got away from. He says he tries not to wank now in between so his orgasm is stronger.

Most days 🙌 but has been since I changed jobs and am more relaxed and rested. Before that 2/3 more pre ovulation.

5-6 times a week, we have been together over 4 years and I love the closeness it brings with my Dh and make sure we prioritise it, though menopausal 😭😭😭😭

I know how you feel and no the pain mentally and emotionally
Its not easy

It is not so much about the number of times per week/month but more about the quality and time spent.

Probably around 3 times over a weekend. Very rarely in the week. But l enjoy a little “me time” (less effort required) more ir less every day.

I was soooooo tempted 😂😂

It's pretty much only on holiday or when the planets align (over lunchtime when I'm working at home, kids are at college/school and DW isn't working or helping her friends with various things) and our drives align, which is extremely infrequently at this moment in time.

We have a great relationship and lots of fun and affection aside so I'm content to sort myself out in-between times and make the most of it when it comes around. I obviously hope we will get back into alignment again one day, but these things ebb and flow over the years so I try to go with the flow.

morning, noon, night

Well, thank you for taking a little time out of your busy routine to let us know. 😊