after affection

[sixtyandfabulousofcourse]

though we have a fab sex life I must admit I do love afterwards just snuggling up kissing and cuddling. I hate times when we are in a rush and have to get up straight away, its much nicer snuggling chatting just relaxing.
Is the afterwards like that important to you or once its over do you prefer to get up or go to sleep

It’s important to me to snuggle, kiss and talk or just be wrapped up together contently quiet. I don’t like getting up straight away and I’m usually too excited to fall asleep though I know after 5 mins if it’s at night, my dp will fall asleep quite quickly 😅 but if it’s daytime the cuddling after sex will lead to more sex after 5 mins to recover!

When my partner was alive we definitely liked cuddling and words of affirmation afterwards rather than just going to sleep

Love a contented cuddle afterwards. I think this may be because of some of the kinks we indulge in but I really need recovery time and a sleep afterwards, almost like I’m drunk. (Or maybe it’s the day-to-day stress I need to escape.)

Yeah he tickles my back every night whether we have sex or not. Physical affection is my favourite way for him to show his love.

I've dumped several men for the the lack of any affection after sex. There is, in my opinion, nothing for making you feel 'used' like a man just rolling over and starting snoring.

Of course I love it. Sadly I’m in a stage of life where normally I’m jumping up, quick shower and then back to reality. But it’s an occasional wonderful luxury. I love if we have time for a little nap afterwards falling asleep all entangled

I like to cuddle, hold and relax and a little later perhaps have a coffee in bed. Rarely go to sleep though as l’m not a night time sex sort of person. For me, night time bed as mostly “sleeping bed”.

I absolutely love "aftercare". The idea of just getting up and doing something else leaves me cold... Rolling over & going to sleep isn't an option for me..

I absolutely love cuddling after sex. I think it's even more ingrained than it would have originally been as my ex would just push me aside and light up a cigarette straight after sex but then with him it was a case of he got what he wanted I no longer mattered till he wanted sex again. My boyfriend now thankfully loves cuddling after as much as I do