Dirty Talk?

[MaeDaymon]

How would I initiate dirty talk over the phone?

Ask your teachers at school. They may have some good insight on this topic.

Kids probably don't know what mumsnet is. It's the sex board so a valid question. And if anything posted on here isn't genuine it's more likely to be an adult perve seeking sexual kicks than a teenager trolling the boards.

I'm definitely an adult just asking a question on a sex board!

Ah you're creating multiple threads on the sex board I see tonight.

Yes - different topics

This may poke the fire but.

I've only ever met one lady who was good at dirty talk and who enjoyed it.

I'm female!? and wanting to do this for my male partner

If you know what the other person likes, try just describing what you would do to them. Be graphic with the details. Describe how the thought of them doing X to you is making you feel. Try to have fun with it so you don't feel so self conscious.

I find texting easier, It gives me time to be creative with replies, my current partner writes absolute filth with good grammar and punctuation ( gets me really hot everytime😋) I feel quite self conscious on the phone ( enjoy dirty talk whilst having sex).

talking through role play/scenarios during sex is very hot

often include friends and neighbours 😉

It's a guaranteed way of getting you kicked off the street WhatsApp group. I'd be tempted to remove them.

I too prefer to ‘dirty text’ rather than talk. You have time craft what you want to say. It starts with a little innuendo… then describe around what you know what your partner likes. It’s like poetry…

I absolutely agree @Sensate

It's far better to read it

I really enjoy it but you need a partner with great chemistry. Try it over text first, build your confidence up that way and then try over the phone. Maybe let him lead at first?

I always thought I’d prefer text/written messages over phone sex, but I quickly changed my
mind once I’d tried it.

@JoyousMaker Thats made me chuckle

@MaeDaymon

You could always try ringing him whilst using your new purchase!

Reality mixed with a bit of description not a bad place to start.

Isn't that what dirty talk means? Phone sex?

@Gymbunny2025

On the phone I’d class dirty talk as just talk bit like sexting

Id class phone sex as performing a sexual act whilst someone listens or they mutually take part.

If your struggling to start I think phone sex is easier, adding a bit of description can get you into the zone for just talk

I was just imagining 2 people talking dirty down the phone while making their dinner 😂😂 maybe that's where Gentleman Jay has been going wrong!

certainly wouldn’t fancy phone sex whilst cooking the dinner!

May take some explaining in A&E 😳

You've hit boiling point?

you could start by talking/texting about a hot Courier/Tradesperson/Postie that showed up whilst you were WFH and what he could have done to you.

Build up the tension for main course when partner gets home...

As phone sex is just the same as sex, the question is how do you initiate sex, and would that give you an idea about what to say?

I think good sexy talk needs a just few good stock phrases, an idea about what words won't land well, and confidence.

I wonder when MN site will be fully working?