new bf doesn't seem to produce much ejaculate?

[soscaredandworried]

I've been with my new bf a couple of months now and I've noticed that he doesn't really produce much cum, or at least as not as much as my ex partners. When we've used condoms it has looked like a reasonable amount but when he cums inside me I don't feel it come out like I have with other partners and also when he has cum in my mouth it hasn't seemed like a lot. What could the reason for this be? I am kind of worried that it may be a fertility problem because, if things go well, i would like to TTC eventually.

Why does it matter? If you are both enjoying what is happening, a teaspoon or a soup ladle doesn’t make any difference.

Some men will produce lots, others not so much. It’s completely normal.

I don’t actually produce any and its great, no mess no clean up and no need for protection ( in a LTR)

sperm quality isn’t based on volume of ejaculate so he might be very fertile, if he’s not, there’s lots of ways you can still conceive with him if you both wanted to.

@travellinglighter it matters if we are going to TTC in future. And I wondered if it might be an attraction issue?

@smithey855 thank you, I was mostly concerned about the link to fertility so that is reassuring

It’s something that I’d worry about when the time comes but a teaspoon of healthy ejaculate contains a 100 million sperm.

@travellinglighter thank you for the reassurance 😊

I really don’t think the amount in any way correlates to how much someone likes you! How on earth would someone be able to control that, even subconsciously? More likely to get erection problems or not be able to cum at all.

I expect it’s either normal for him - or he’s possibly masturbating before sex at some point during that day to make him last longer with you, hence there’s less in the end result.

Google is your friend.
https://www.news-medical.net/health/Increasing-Semen-Volume.aspx

I don't produce much and have 3 kids so it's not a problem getting pregnant.
You've not been together too long so is he wanting before sex to help last longer?

are you having a lot of sex or does he masturbate a lot? Hubby and I have sex daily, and somehow he managed to masturbate daily too, but on the occasions he hasn’t cum for a few days the volume is significantly larger, it really makes a dramatic difference.

My hubby usually does not have much at all which I like as it means hardly any cleanup! I know he is usually a daily masturbator so maybe not a surprise there.

Hi. My husband is very similar. If he hasn't cum for 4 or 5 days, he shoots lots and very quick. But I give him a bj most days. Typical sex session he will cum 3 times.

Cleaning the mess is my favourite part. I've always liked the taste of cum. First thing I like to do when I wake. I'm lucky that he loves bjs more than sex. Yes your man probably is wanking. Mine does to because he thinks he'll last longer then with me. But not much longer. His best friend shoots the most cum I've seen since younger.

Yes this is most likely. The very first time I saw my husbands penis I pulled his pants down and his pants were wet. And I felt a bit disappointed looking at his balls. I actually thought he was not developed. But I was surprised with his penis size. I was told his size but I didn't think it was true. Anyway, I slowly put my hand on his balls and give a squeeze because he'd told me sexting that he liked it. Then I went down and as my tongue touched his shaft, he squirted huge amount. 3 shots. It was over my face and all on the sofa. He was saying sorry and he was embarrassed and I licked him clean. He loved it. Anyway, he cums a lot now and it's not a lot.

I absolutely so much love a heavy cummer. But some guys just are and some are not and that’s just how it is. Nothing to do with you them or how you do it it’s just what they produce.

Good Lord how long is a typical sex session and how long does he need to recover and get erect again?

STBXH was a mass producer. New DP doesn't seem to produce much, to the point where I questioned if he came at all. (I am rather juicy, so I guess hard to tell).

But... he seems to be having fun and has zero complaints. 🤩

It all depends on the man, your diet and also when you last came
For me i usually produce a tea spoon.

For conception as others said it's likely no big deal. If you want to see more volume though you could try edging together, or him doing it for a while to prepare.

It really does vary from man to man and is nothing to worry about.

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No correlation between volume of ejaculate and fertility.

If he masturbates a lot or often then he'll have less fuel in the tank for you.

Ask him not to masturbate for 2-3 days and then have a gobble at him.

he could be masturbating between sex - nothing bad about that