High libido change

[MaeDaymon]

Has anyone experienced a libido change?

After a year or so of not really being fussed, all I can think about is sex!

Early to mid-40s? 😆

Seen your other post on the other board. Yes, it’s menopause! Hormones go crazy and testosterone becomes more dominant with the drop in oestrogen. Doesn’t happen to a lot of women (as most go the other way) but happened to
me!!

Oh yes!

I had a huge surge in libido in my early 40's. Peri menopause. It was great while it lasted. I would love to be back there but my libido has flatlined now, age 53.

Mine’s gone the other way! In my 20s and most of my 30s (when married and before) I was uncomfortable without sex every other day at least. Now at 43 and several years divorced I have a friend who I see every few weeks, a vibrator I use about as often, and very infrequent urges. I wonder if it’ll change again at some point.

Have you tried testosterone?

I want to but my hrt nurse tested my levels and said no.