PIV orgasms

[Wonderwhyy]

I know it's common for women not to orgasms during PIV sex but is there any way that you can make it happen?
Think I've managed to orgasms 2 maybe 3 times during PIV sex my whole life (I'm 30) so I know it is possible for me.
I love sex with my DH and it feels amazing but for some reason can never get the finish even when I feel like I'm really close. Is there anything I can do or DH can do to make it happen.

Maybe common not, but also fairly common to be able to. There isn't a time in several years I haven't orgasmed from PIV. Maybe that is down to be DH being exceptionally good at foreplay and oral but I could not imagine not having the delight of an orgasm when he is inside me

See I don't like oral.. never have off of any partner it makes me feel uncomfortable and I just can't relax enough to enjoy it. But that's what I want is to be able to cum with DH inside me instead of having DH reach for my vibrator wand to finish me off through clit.

For me it's not something that always happens at all.

Things that help are his size, him getting me close before hand, position (although this seems to vary slightly) and some nipple stimulation at the same time.

Because I orgasm more easily from clit sometimes he will pull away during oral even when I don't want him to 😂 normally worth it though!

Another thing I did ages ago was only have internal orgasms during alone time to get my body used to it. That did seem to help but I also found it quite frustrating at the time as took much longer!

I may try this, what did you use to achieve it? I've never had anything other than a wand

I do think our bodies can get a bit lazy with orgasms. I used a g spot toy.

The answer may be to either let your mind go into freefall or think of another person that you may want or had sex with previously.

I only started having consistent piv orgasms around a decade ago and I'm late 30s. Try with his fingers first and get him to find your G spot. Then once you know the exact bit you're aiming for, you can play around with postions that stimulate that.

Im in my mid 50’s and have multiple orgasms every time me and my DH have sex, we normally start by him giving me oral which I have multiple orgasms, then I orgasm with a vibrator followed with us both coming at the same time with him in side me.
I couldn’t have sex without DH giving me oral first.

To my shame i used to do this all the time much to my partner’s frustration.

Looking back now don’t even know why I did it.I really should have listened to her but I read the “how to give good oral “on the bad girls bible and can gladly report that it fixed my issue.

Also now do as instructed when asked for much better results pretty simple really 🤔

I meant he gets me close with oral so then I can orgasm when he's inside me

Arh sorry misunderstood. Just thought I’d share my success in case anyone else has one like me that didn’t listen

If my partner goes straight from kissing to PIV, I'm a very very happy girl.

I ask him to lie still. I literally use him like a dildo and make myself cum on him. I can do this a few times if he's able to stay still long enough.

He often can't though. He enjoys me enjoying myself too much, so has to join in.

My wife can't through PIV, although mentioned she did once, but I'm not sure it was with me 😑Anyway, she uses the wand with me inside her...have you given that a whirl? As a man I can't comment if that has the same affect as having it just from PIV, I'm guessing not but I know she much prefers it to just using the wand solo

Sorry to hear this, I feel your pain!
For the longest time I had a similar issue, not because I couldn’t orgasm, but because DH came a lot quicker than me, it’s frustrating as hell, tried the desensitising cream stuff and the thicker condoms but we both hated them.
Anyway, out of sheer desperation I stumbled upon a masseur offering to “enhance orgasms” and libido, (thinking that the issue was with me) I contacted this guy.
Ive had a few “treatment” sessions with him now and sex with DH is better than ever, I am a lot more relaxed which definitely helps get me there and the masseur has shown me some new tricks which I’ve shown my DH which don’t involve oral.
Long story short, there is nothing wrong with YOU! Or him either to be fair (your DH), you just haven’t found what works for you! Don’t put the chicken in the oven if it’s not properly pre-heated it takes a lot longer and isn’t as good in the end 😉
Good luck, PM me and I’ll give you my guys details if you want.x

Missionary but with the legs brought up onto his shoulders. Then he folds you up by pushing your legs towards you.

It creates really deep penetration with the perfect angle. It's the most reliable way I have found.

If you're after a purely internal orgasm, try thinking about positions where his penis is putting more pressure on the front wall of your vagina. That might be something like doggy or like @Cloney suggests, depending on the angle.
Or if a more clitoral orgasm during PIV will suffice, during missionary, get him to push up against your mons at the end of each thrust.
That's what's worked for me in the past.

worth a try but definitely won't physically work for everyone. It's an absolute no from my wife

Thanks for your suggestion, We've tried positions like this but he's quite well endowed and positions that's make it deeper are just too uncomfortable.

Try using a sleeve or even a life like dildo that’s bigger than he is to spice things up. Really gets both parties excited Amd makes orgasming more intense.

In our experience PIV female orgasm relies on getting the grind right. If you imagine the physical grind which can be achieved in the cowgirl position but actually in missionary. The man needs to use his hips, dig his toes into the bed for push and leverage. It also helps if he pulls back a little from full PIV allowing part of his shaft to grind directly on the V and exposed clit.

There is not in/out motion just grind with the man having to pull back a little each time and start again.

The grind is also similar to the sensation achieved in pillow humping, or so says my wife.

We managed it for years but putting on weight works against the technique. As I grew older I lost some of the core strength needed. The combination meant we couldn't manage it any more.