Swing ish fetish

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Me and my partner have been discussing way to add to our amazing sex life and love making journey.
We’ve talking about attending sex and swingers parties,although we dont want to swap partners the thought us making love in the same room as others is a big turn and an experience that we want to partake in but dont know where to look or how to find others with similar interest.
we’re both 40,
Are we the only ones feeling like this?
Anyone who can suggest or point us to the right direction would greatly appreciated.
Thank you😊

A swingers club is probably the best place to meet people for this. There are plenty of people who enjoy the voyeurism/exhibitionist aspect of this without swapping.

Fabswingers may work for you also. Good luck.

Definitely not the only one. I often fantasise about this but my DH would never go for it.

Yeah, go to a swingers club. First time we had sex with people around was so much fun! No one will pressure you, you can do your own thing. I find them very liberating and body positive places tbh.

Check out Killing Kittens parties.

My top tips:
Join the pre-party chat group so you can get to know people beforehand.
Treat it as a fun night out with no expectations.
Agree the ground rules before you go. Agree a signal or word if one of you has had enough and wants to leave.
Take a small bag with condoms, wipes, breath mints, and sweets (to share). Pack a light robe so you can cover up to go to the loo or at the bar.
Keep your shoes on!

A bunch of KK'ers go to Ignite quite regularly.

Oh we went to Ignite on Saturday, thought it was very nice. Now my second favourite club I think, out of my massive sample of 4 😂

Concur with most of PinotPony's list, although I'm not really interested in talking to people beforehand! You can also get little sachets of lube which may or may not be useful for you. Definitely keep your shoes on .... non-slip if you want to be really practical 😂