Younger men understand me and make me happy. Is there something wrong with me?

[valentinka31]

That's about it.

I love all men, I don't have any problem at all with older guys. But I just find that more younger guys understand me more, are nicer and more open, and we just get each other.

The simple sort of things I like are what they like too. And they respect that and me.

Probably now some answers will be oh, you seem available, they are up for anything, it's all bs, but ... it feels deeper, much deeper, than that.

Does equivalent age have to rule appropriacy of connection?

I think, mutinously, and from experience ... not.

I think middle aged guys are about as diverse as any other group, sexually and otherwise. I have friends who had their most adventurous and passionate sex post-45 as their youthful squeamishness evaporated. As life has knocked the rough edges off them, they've become humble, appreciative and grateful for new experiences while there's still time. And I know others whose prudishness has got worse with age, and who've become depressingly conservative in other ways. But most of that lot never had that much imagination to start with. Many go through their whole lives without finding a partner who really accepts and reveres them in the way that valentina31 is talking about.

no no - quite the opposite was being said ... you talked about how your sex life had just continued together, and always been good, and you had always done your best to make her happy. @Letstalkaboutsex76 agreed that your approach was perfect. She then gave an example of a bad set-up with a middle-aged man who totally ignored her and just used her to slake his occasional appetite. And I said that was vile. ... so we were all actually admiring you : )

Oh thank goods I was concerned that my thread had been taken the wrong way.🥰. I would love to find a lady in her mid 60’s who wants to be loved.

Yes, of course, and I agree that that kind of 'true' love, or whatever we want to call it, that revelation of how amazing the other is, that can be very elusive and is, to some degree, dependent on who one meets in life. I think, though, as you say, that who you are and how you see things also has its impact on the level of connection/happiness that you might be able to achieve.

The key is to understand that we are still learning, all the time. This revelation about me being the centre of the universe (the power within all women really), has crystallised itself only fairly recently.