Fwb

[Shager1]

I've never written or ever asked this question
I'm male can you find fwb on here

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No, you are far more likely to get a boot up the backside.

No.

Thought the kids had gone back to school

Well I seem to get multiple private messages, but I never get to read any of them as they are immediately deleted by admin. So I guess those are the FWB offers haha

Sadly posts like this show exactly why those of us who are male and just want to be part of a genuine discussion are so ridiculed

and you are missing a “g” in your username…

@valentinka31 ..... slight segway here, but are you saying admin delete private messages before you get to read them?
Just for clarity, was this something you requested?

I believe I have experienced this . Wondered how it was happening and contacted admin. If the message is deleted if it is not because they have asked.

In my case it was because the account the PM has come from has been deleted which gives the message that admin have removed it.

It is people PM and having a convo then deleting their account or possibly in you’re case they have been reported by someone else and then there account has been deleted by admin therefore deleting their PM before you can reply.

Hope that makes sense. Ask admin if it doesn’t.

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I think more likely they've been sending them to multiple people, been reported and then deleted/ banned.

@GigiAnnna 👍 makes sense

No I never have requested anything! It is weird. I have lots of messages and yes I guess it does look like they are from male users, I checked a few. And it just say message deleted by admin. So I see the user name and then message deleted. So I don't get to read and decide for my self. The Ubermumz decide ha.

Bless them, I am sure it is a protective measure. But actually I would rather decide for myself.

aha ok
they just throw out the net, as it were..

and there was I thinking I had a hinge side-option on here 😂

@valentinka31 please take a moment to consider what a man who posts or DM those kind of messages looks like!!! There's a reason they don't have any success elsewhere 🤢

tbf I think that's not quite how I see things. I mean, how he looks isn't so much the thing as who he is. But yes, I get you.

Yes, I am ludicrously naive, always have been :(

Possibly some need to maybe consider if it is a man first. With a non gendered username some chaps don’t always get it right.

When you sat bored on a Tuesday night and you get a PM “Hi cutie”

It can be quiet amusing to know you got one hot and bothered before they look at your posting history and discover you also a man lol

It did make me piss that they were busily deleting their account as they clean up the tummy wipes 🤢

Very funny!! Also I bet there are a lot of men posing as female posters on here!

Although with your username I'd assume man 😂

Nobody says hi cutie to me. I think they go in a bit more full on omg.

What do they say?! I don't think I've ever bothered reading properly just report!

Don’t want to be guilty on mansplanation but if you’ve ever unsure there is a checker if you google it that will analyse text and give a prediction on the sex of the person who wrote the text.

Someone mentioned it to on here. You’ve got to get up early to get one over the wise woman of MN.

Have never considered cheating but this place has made me realise I am not smart enough if I wanted to 😂

I. Must have a coy online presence 😂

I get creepy men expecting me to talk dirty because I talk quite openly on here about sex, masturbation or advise about sex toys because that's something I specialise in on a professional level to do with my job. I usually ignore or shut it down and only report if they carry on.