"Breaking new ground"

[soloinaduo]

Ok, this is the sex thread, it's New Year, so the question is simple.

What are you going to try for the first time in 2025? What have you always wanted to do, and never have? Is 2025 the year for breaking new ground?

My partner wants to cybersex men online. I don't have any strong objection, just as long as I'm aware. I think that will be the theme for 2025.

I’m fairly promiscuous and have a very active sex life, 36yr old female. I promised myself years ago I would go to Amsterdam and spend an evening/night in a glory hole, definitely for oral and possibly for more, but I’m going to do it this year and enjoy the anonymity while enjoying lots of varied cocks, I have already booked my flights and have a couple of clubs in mind. I’ve wanted to do it for years and 2025 will be the year I do it

If I thought I could keep a straight face, quite a lot of interesting role play....

Roleplay is amazing if both parties get into it! I’m cabin crew and wear my uniform a lot which always goes down well but I have other uniforms too that are equally fun to wear

Nothing really. I'm satisfied with the sex I'm having and got other stuff out my system years ago. So my new years resolution is to carry on making sure my husband and I prioritise sex over the mundane side of life.

Would love to try prostate massage and perhaps this year I can finally persuade DW that lube isn’t for old people and sex toys aren’t for young people

Lube sometimes ruins the experience for me if wanting to do lots of oral etc after so bear that in mind x lots of men love prostate massages, hope you get your wish!

Can't beat a bit of cybersex!

I am aiming for a swingers party in 2025!

my single pal & I are going have a race, we going to see how many guys we can convince into letting us peg them 😈

Fantastic idea 😁

Happy New Year everyone! x

Willing volunteers don’t count x

Ha ha! 😁

We dipped our toes into the wonderful world of swinging. Been chatting to a really nice couple and hoping our first full swap will happen this month.

Enjoy - and post an update if you feel like it! We have used clubs, for various reasons won’t do it outside that environment but if it works for you then go for it. In our case it’s a question of slightly more daring activities at clubs, we will see though as I might bottle it at the end …

Hey Dexy, sure will come back and update if/when it happens. We have been to a club and enjoyed it, that was going to be our plan but then we got chatting to a couple online.

If it doesn't happen we will try our luck with the club instead, meeting people online has proven to be uhm, inconsistent, in the short time we've been doing it.

Likewise hope you enjoy your new and daring activities 😉

I'm attending a naughty house party in Feb. A big swinger social in Manchester in Feb. I will continue to practise my tantric massages. First couple of the year booked in for Jan.

Dvp. Have done it with toys but I'd like to experience two guys. Just need to decide which friend to ask 😅

I have various bits and pieces on my kink bucket list, but I suspect they may be a bit much for most on here and kink isn't especially sexual for me

I pretty much guarantee that someone on here will have tried most, if not all on your bucket list!

In that case if anyone has any experience of stapling vs sutures I'd love to hear their views. We're fairly experienced with staples but I want to do a human puppet scene and feel like sutures with a long tail would look better than staples with thread tied on.

Trying water breath play is a big one for this year, plus expanding on rope. I really want to do impact in a partial suspension but getting practice time in isn't always easy.

We're also booked onto a needles workshop which should be fun. I've got so many ideas for patterns

Have a potential opportunity for 3sojecwith 2 guys. Have slept with 1 already. Nit 200% about letting the other guy join. Never done it before but am intrigued.

Any advice or things to consider

I'm just going to allow one of these way younger guys I've been talking with to meet up with me in a charming inn somewhere, with a four poster bed. And then schedule in a whole year of such meetings. With the same one.

If the guys don’t know each other there is the potential for embarrassment- esp if one is much superior in bed to the other. I have had a few experiences where one ran out of stamina early and was reduced to a spectator. Also if you attempt DP there could be a bit of awkwardness as they are likely to have some contact with each other

I want to do some underwater shibari photography this year. Plus practice and improve my suspensions. DP rarely comes to classes with me so I really need to find a new rope buddy.

Sex-wise, I’ve been chatting with three guys who are in a VWE group on Fab and I’m very tempted by the idea of meeting them for some DP/DVP and airtight fun… but also slightly terrified at the prospect! Think I’ll start with one first…

We have a weekend away in Feb with a lovely woman who DP adores so we’ll be having some FMF fun too.

Always wanted to be involved in a threesome with a couple. Absolutely on my 'to do' list if the opportunity were to arise. I'd love to watch them first and then join in, or sex with a younger woman. 60 here but still fit and very active.