I haven't really got a friend who I feel comfortable telling about this, but I have just had the best sex of my life in my early 50s and I want to shout about it. I am in a relatively new relationship. A combination of some very good oral, some very dirty talk , a lot of clit stimulation whilst having sex and then the introduction of a small butt plug (a Christmas gift ) I have finally had an amazing orgasm whilst actually having penetrative sex. I just thought this wasn't possible for me. Happy new year everyone!