Best positions for size difference couples

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Hi. My DP is naturally a large guy. He is over 6ft and probably about 18st right now. Last year he got down to about 16st and the difference in his stamina and comfort was much improved. This isn’t a post about whether I fancy him as I still do, but it does affect our sex life and he is planning to try make improvements but are there any guys here who could help give advice about positions or comfort in the meantime

I’m much smaller than him, around half the size in weight and if he’s on top it can feel a bit suffocating. He has much stronger legs than arms to hold his own weight, so he can’t go long on top of me with fully extended arms and tends to go down onto his elbows and then I feel squashed.

I go on top a lot and I have decent leg stamina but (and TMI) as he is a big guy, my legs being so wide open for a long time can get uncomfortable in the hips.

Lying down from behind, or doggy, his belly is a bit in the way and slaps my bum.

I don’t like reverse cowgirl all that much, I will do it from time to time.

We move around a lot into different positions but I orgasm from being on top and he doesn’t so we end up switching around a lot.

I would like to be able to work on him getting to orgasm when I am on top but I don’t think my legs are long enough to push me up and down to make it fast enough to get him there near the end.

He is very considerate and usually it’s him who doesn’t finish because he is worn out, not me.

Hi Op

We have a significant size difference I am twice the weight of my partner and considerably taller.

Positions wise we found her lying me standing/ kneeling positions to really help. kitchen table my particular favourite. There are loads and loads of different ones to try on Kinkly and bad girls bible.

However I am a big advocate for investing in things to improve your sex life as it’s an important part of our lives. We have had the liberator wedge and ramp combo for years along with other stuff.

We also have a sex stool from love honey and if being on top is what you need to fix,that will fix it depending on how wide your chap is. I am XL and it works fine. There about £100

One last thing is from a male prospective nobody wants to be. Crap shag. Using better sex as a motivational point to help him get fitter could be a good start. There is a whole section on it on men’s health magazine/website. Weight loss/fitness and focus on coure strength is key.

There are some positions where a large power imbalance is a distinct advantage 😳

He could go on top. You get in missionary position. Then lift your legs over his shoulders and then backwards towards your head. He thrusts downwards into you without lying on top of of you and putting all his weight on you. Even straight missionary though, he shouldn't have his whole body pressed onto you. There needs to be some gap so he can thrust into you at full power and keep up a rhythm.

Maybe try you lying on your back, him lying next to you on his side, and entering from there. He can then be a right angles to you, you will also have easy access to your clitoris (added bonus).

No advice but following with interest and my partner is about 26 stone and 6 foot 2 compared to my 5 foot 4. No idea what I weigh but size 14.

One position that works is my partner lies on his side and penetrates me with my legs over him so my head is at a 90 degree angle away from him, and the belly won’t get in the way. It’s good as well as you can take it in turn with who thrusts ect. Or doggy however he should be standing and you should be on all fours on the bed.

If your bed is the right height you could try lying on your back with your bottom just hanging off the edge. Legs folded up over your torso. He stands next to the bed and penetrates you. Deep penetration, his belly doesn't get in the way, and your legs aren't wide around his body.

There is a type of wide high heel called block heels. These provide good support and balance. Since you said there is a difference in your sizes, it depends on difference in the lengths of your legs; but you might try improving doggy style by wearing high block heels, standing at the edge of the bed with him behind you, and leaning over the bed with your chest on the bed and your head turned to the side. The heels will adjust the height of your vagina to better align with the height of his penis. Also, you can provide some assist by reaching back with your hands and spreading your buttocks.