Do you enjoy 69

[MrsBrollie]

Having read a few threads over the years it seems 69 is a very divisive activity. Hubby and I both love it and we are quite surprised others don’t, so thought I’d do pole just for fun to see the proportion of people who love/hate 69

I can’t relax , which means I don’t enjoy it, which means I get nothing from it.

I love oral though… giving and receiving

It's my wife's favourite. I really enjoy it to.

No problems concentrating on the simultaneous giving and receiving.

When I used to 69 with my wife I find concentrating on her orgasm meant that I didn't enjoy it as much, it was enjoyable, but not as good as giving and recieving separately, and to be honest, not that fussed about a BJ full stop, prefer the feel of a vagina.

We love it and do it most times we have sex. Perfect way to “do both” at the same time.

Pole. 😘

Nice but not as nice as doing each other separately. Can be a variation on foreplay, but not a “main event.”

Height difference can be a bit of an issue sometimes - but I love it when it isn't! 😉

Both used to really enjoy it, DW doesn’t like receiving anymore so no longer happens

Not really. I find it a bit fumbly. And hard to focus on giving and receiving at the same time. There's other things I would rate way above it.

Loved it before menopause. Then we lost her taste and smell (and drive).

I can relate to this. Had DH licking joyfully away once thinking I was loving it. Didn't have the heart to tell him it was my knee.

😂

First time I've seen annoying MN creep onto the sex board 🤦‍♀️

OP - I don't like it. I can't focus on my pleasure while focusing on his. My brain can't be in 2 places at the same time!

Yes and no.
When I'm receiving oral, I want to be involved. I'm not very good at just lying back and having it done for me and I want to reciprocate. But in a 69, I end up concentrating more on what I'm doing than what's being done for me.
So while I love the intimacy and the mutual side of it, I probably don't enjoy it as much as I want to.

Not safe for the other person ⚠️. I clench my teeth as l get excited.

Thanks BJ Queen.

Ends up with me face sitting
can’t concentrate

but keep it going with a handjob

We lie on our sides and find it relaxing.....I have to rest my head on her inner thigh sometimes and just appreciate how talented she is 😉