Being a voyeur

[PeekingSusan]

if you, from a safe and discrete distance, stumbled across an adult male (not a DP) undressing and probably masturbating…. Would you watch?

this happened to me recently and I was shocked that I didn’t just walk away as the rational part of me believed that I would never watch. Told DH and he just laughed and said everyone would watch and the guy would probably like the fact anyway.

My concern would be where was this individual doing this? Could a child have witnessed this behaviour? If so then i think you should have raised this concern with someone rather than watch. However if this had happened somewhere that this couldn't have happened then why wouldn't you watch? He probably wanted that and you were probably a mix of curiosity and excitement? How did it make you feel watching?

There is no way anyone else could have seen, and I wouldn’t usually have been in a position to see either. (I’m being careful of details).

I saw some nudity and then kneeling and ‘suspicious movement’.

@PeekingSusan Has it made you want to see more? Have you do you watch porn?

Not especially keen to see more, I’m shocked at myself for lingering.

I have seen porn, doesn’t do much for me

I like the idea of public voyeur but I don’t how it can safely happen in real life - eg exposing to someone who isn’t in on it

only thing that’s happened to me was a few years ago on holiday in spain

we had a semi detached villa with own pool. No one directly looking in so I was topless

I was standing next to the boundary wall when I realised a new couple had moved in so the guy (in his swimming shorts) could now see me

I just had to front it & said morning
we chatted for 5 mins about the weather
when I moved away from the wall he couldn’t see me

felt a bit liberating so ended up catching him again a few days later for a chat

Ffs

Thank god you are an X pc
Disgusting

I still can’t quite work out how one could spy someone masturbating but if he appealed to me then yes I might watch

Lawyerly cough

Did you then take down their particulars?

And no I don’t think there’s anything wrong with watching. Because if you could see him then he must have known someone might. ..

I'm glad the xpc's comments have been deleted.
What a disgusting specimen and I hope the old perve has been banned indefinitely
Ex police
Dear god

I was going to say maybe he was doing it hoping someone would see? Was it in public or more like when you can kinda see into your neighbours room or something? I’ve seen the latter before and they’ve seen me too lol but not sure how it could be in total public without it being a bit worrying? Xx

Happens all the time on nudest beaches

Did you post a thread a while ago about this? About seeing your neighbour in his garden? And wondering whether you should tell them?