After a long marriage I have met a new man. I am absolutely crazy about him. He is perfect in every way. Going away tomorrow and going to have sex for first time. Problem is I’ve had four children naturally and whilst nothing traumatic obviously not that tight down there. Have some problems when leaking when I cough etc. Whilst he was married before he has no kids and has never been with someone who has had kids. I had a pretty good sex life in my marriage but I am terrified it is going to be rubbish for him and ruin everything. Total anxiety overload. Any advice on anything I can do to make it ok.