Before I met my wife 5 yrs ago, I was a swinger but stopped in the hope that she would be intrigued about the life. Even though she knows about my past I have kept dropping hints about it every now and then but no response. We have sex once a week, occasionally a few times more but huh, I love my wife deeply but am I wrong to look for sex outside an if not where as I believe a lot of women are looking for it too ??