Do you wear lingerie? Do you men love it?

[hurenee]

Hey everyone,

Lingerie isn't something I wear in the bedroom. I usually wear a sexy bra and thong set but it very quickly comes off.....

I was thinking of buying something more sexy but I'm not sure where to start.

Or costumes even? What do you all wear? And if your a man is it something you like.

Personally, I am not fussed by lingerie in person as it's coming off anyway, so I would just rather start off naked asap. I looks good if sending photos, but that's it for me.

I’m usually like you and either wear thong and bra or satin slip. However for lingerie I do have this one piece burgundy thong all in one and it has lace and bits cut out of the body. I don’t know what it is but drives my dp wild. I also find with lingerie that for it to have the desired effect I will usually go up while we are watching tv then get dressed up with heels and either take a pic and send to dp or go down stairs and we will usually start having sex then and there which we both love. Sometimes I can’t be arsed and go to bed naked lol but it does spice things up!

Visual creatures that we are, I'd love to see my wife make the effort with lingerie, but I think that's long gone sadly.
Stockings and suspenders were a favourite of mine as it seemed to frame the intimate area, and it just showed that a bit of effort had been made and it was appreciated.
Still, we all get older and there are other distractions, and it was always her decision whether to wear something sexy or not.

I’m not a multi pack knickers sort of girl. I wear nice lingerie on a day to day basis. I always buy 2 pairs of matching knix with a new bra. Although l aspire to, l often still don’t match underneath it all.

l like lingerie to be practical, comfy and pretty though. But l don’t dress up for the bedroom. What you find underneath is what l opted to wear that day.

My exH liked the sensation of slippery or soft materials. So for a date night I do wear some long nighties and he will rub himself all over me. It sure gets him going!
I like the effect as well.😉

Can’t honestly say lingere is an essential in the bedroom,nice if DW wants to make that sort of gesture but it comes off anyway

hubby has bought me lingerie over the years but I’m really not that into it, he likes the way I look in it but as most of you say it comes off really quickly, what I have done is changed my day to day underwear to thongs and G-strings since we have been together and I know hubby appreciates it, he is an arse guy! Most of them are
just standard M&S or Tesco kind but it always puts a smile on his face

Adore pretty colourful underware

I am a man and definitely in the loving lingerie camp. I love her just as much with as without and any enhancement but have always appreciated anything she does for her or for me.

We have been together a long time in the younger days of one of my T-shirts and just regular cotton day pants was all it took. As we have aged, I love when she wears classic brands like Cervin and Gio they just seem to frame what is already perfect and we don’t always get the chance for it all to come off on occasion.There is something infinitely arousing and powerful about it, something about knowing what’s underneath or even the old glimpse as she gets ready! Few so hot!

She does not tend to wear much, and I don’t tend to buy any boudoir sets. We have bought some fun boudoir costumes and they have been more to spice things up.

I do however have a very guilty pleasure in that for all that I love the classic look I can not explain why I love a body stocking so much. My wife thinks it hilarious that they for some reason just do something to crazy to my brain. They do have to be solid types as in fish net, Fence net, pothole, or lace not the fancy patterned ones. She would never of ever chose one herself to wear (she had never even seen one when I bought the first one) When the mood takes her, she Is up for wearing one and like to think I make it worth her while!!

In my experience making the effort has been appreciated, def not a thong girl but I do like some coloured lace that says;
”I’ve been thinking about this possibility since I got dressed!”

All the underwear doesn't have to come off! Especially ouvert things....

My husband’s view is the same - he doesn’t see the point as it doesn’t stay on for long!

In that case l think about the possibility from quite early (very early by some people’s standards) every workday morning 🫢.

Everyone is different then I suppose!

I'll ask dp later to see what he thinks! I have put on sexy sets before but he seems to want me completely naked as soon as possible so maybe he doesn't care?

Ugh I love sex

Fwiw, I adore my partner wearing lingerie....and I'm never in a hurry to remove it.....she feels really sexy and I love how knowing that! ..... and tbh, she also feels more comfortable covering a little more with a sexy basque....and I'm not complaining;-)

My wife wears thongs or g-strings regularly and I love the way her bottom looks in them. She usually sleeps in a nightie or t-shirt with nothing underneath which make it easier. She does have some fancier teddies/bodysuits for special occasions or boudoir shoots but those tend to come off quickly.

That seems a lot to wear in bed. If l wear anything in bed it gets all screwed up and is uncomfortable.

A nice pair of knickers and a matching colour bra is plenty for me ... although do get a right rod on with lingerie

Really id keep her knickers on of i could and just shift them to the side

What kind of lingerie?

If anyone has any recommendations feel free to PM me I wanna feel sexy for dp

Satin lingerie with french knickers or pants are great to feel, definitely not thongs or G strings for me.

I think underwear can be very sensual when used during sex. As a man i find it a real turn on.

I am not one who takes it off asap as it forms part of foreplay.

Honey Birdette does some lovely stuff if you ever feel like pushing the boat out. If I were your dp I'd be very happy for you to buy yourself some of that as my Christmas present!

Why does it have to be pm? What's going on