Swinging

[ThreadTheHaystack]

Started looking in to the idea of being with a couple and heard of a site called fabswingers, is it legit? If so is it good/safe for single women?

Yes it’s legit but you’ll be bombarded with dick pics! You need to be very clear in your profile what you want and set your filters to weed out single men.

Personally I much prefer killing kittens. I’ve met loads of lovely couples on there.

Id try Feeld. You'll have more control on there than you will on Fab.

@PinotPony did the mumsnet chat ever happen with Killing kittens? I remember quite a few of us were keen but my situation changed shortly after that. We’ve been talking about going to one of the balls - I’m really looking forward to it!!

Yes, there’s a Mumsnet group on there. A handful of people, some of whom have been to parties, others who are still planning.

Send me a connection request on WeAreX and I’ll add you to the group. x

Thanks, what is killing kittens?

Thank you!! Done :) x

Re Fabswingers - block everybody, and search for, and contact people that you like - that way you limit the amount of crap you get in your inbox...

Fab can be brutal. If you set your filters high, then go looking for people of your choice. Good luck.

I decided to make a fabswingers account

@ThreadTheHaystack - Enjoy!

Hi OP

fab has many couples but be aware as others have said. Profiles can have verifications but use your instinct.

my advice

1. block all single guys etc.
2. make it clear that you would want a four person couple couple call prior to much chatting
3. do not share face pics links or anything identifying

i would genuinely suggest a club for a first foray as very controlled. Call them up and explain your new and nervous most have meet and greet

oh and make sure your both really sure. Try a club where it’s dress up first then it’s just like a bar unless you choose to go to another area

I entirely understand why you say "don't share face pics".
I'm interested to know how that fits with a lot of profiles that explicitly say "all messages not accompanied by a face pic will be deleted.'

It’s a good point. Some do insist. They are not for us. Typically a well worded intelligent message explaining you would swap pics post a call will suffice