Hairy bum

[sweetlikecoffee]

Got told by a one night stand that I have an incredibly hairy arse…..
Was he insulting me? I’m not sure exactly how to take it. I shear the sheep every 4 days but it never occurred to me that there’s hair growing on the back of the lawn so to say.

Maybe he liked it? Wax or shave it if you don't want to be hairy. Everyone has hair there in varying degrees.

He was only a one night stand. I wouldn't take anything away from his comment.

If it's never bothered you before then don't let it now!

I briefly considered extending the pruning to the rear garden but realised that the last thing I wanted was any visitors at the back door, so I am hoping this will serve as a deterrent.

Sounds like an observation rather than an insult. Why don’t you just get a mirror and check for yourself?

Everyone has hair in that area to a certain extent. Up to you if you want to remove it. I just get it waxed when I have a Brazilian.

My husband prefers me bald down there and I’m indifferent so I had IPL which worked a treat, but I keep my bum hair, it’s my way of sticking it to the man so to speak( I don’t have much hair back there)

A ONS once commented that I may prefer the full hair look, but I needed to trim and keep it in check.

I think my response was "Fuck you"

Hahahah I love that, although I am open to back door visitors if they are gentle and I’m prepared

Bit of an odd thing to say but it would put me off if you have a hairy arse tbh

If you have a Ring camera (obviously not the doorbell) you can use it to check "around the back".

This thread is amazing 😆

OP mowing the far meadows, if you like, is not difficult, so I'd just choose what you prefer and do that!

I don't. Infact I had no idea women could have a hairy arse until a conversation with friends in my 40s

Most women I've slept with have had some hair around their butt hole, some shave/wax. Most probably don't even know they have it.

It was a bit rude of him to comment, personally I don't like it but I'm respectful enough to not mention it.

he sounds horrible, I feel sorry you even had one night with him. I would I think have told him no thanks the second he said that.

It is common, just leave it or shave/wax it or whatever. We are animals. We have fur on us.

That is the funniest thing I've heard in ages. It made me laugh out loud, so thank you!