Anyone tried Seeking?

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I have a friend who’s using seeking to find someone to date (has found the regular dating pool dire). I wonder that even though she’s very boundaried and sure what arrangement she is seeking (no married men) that the successful one in the partnership will always have the advantage and power in the relationship. Anyone had a good outcome from seeking?

My ex used it to find women for his affairs.

A brief look at the time and based on subsequent conversations with him made it seem like it’s full of wealthy, arrogant men and women looking for just that. Not sure it’s the place to find love but I realise I might be biased!

Yes I think my friend said a lot of people are open and upfront about being married on their profiles and the successful ones can be incognito until you match (not sure exactly how it works) so that would also fit with married men being able to only share photos after they have someone on the hook and less likely to be spotted.

In what way will the man have power and advantage? They are both willingly in the arrangement.

i understand for this site you either register yourself as a ‘successful’ or a ‘beauty’ - it could be either sex being the successful. Generally the successful funds the dates or compensates the beauty for their time.

That lines up with what he said. Everything is on the terms of the wealthy one (in his case, him). He now has a girlfriend (who is lonely), who is completely dependent on him for everything. He is also expected to contribute to her extended family: he’s not happy but it’s exactly what he wanted.