Exploring cuckolding

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I blurted out to DW that this was a longtime fantasy of mine. After some open conversations she is ok with exploring it further.

The conversation got onto the who, where etc and whilst it was straightforward enough to come to getting a hotel and throwaway phone numbers/email, finding someone is posing more questions.

How do you find and vet any potential participants for want of a better word? Safety is obviously front of mind, We also want to incorporate another fetish so would want someone open minded enough for this not to be an issue (not expecting them to participate in that aspect).

I have seen other threads on here mention fetlife, fab and killing kittens as a place to find people. Anyone have any other suggestions or for good sites/groups for newbies around the practicalities of it?

I did find some reddits but that was mostly vids or gifs than an actual asking questions type of board.

Nah I think I'll hang around as it is the sex board. Feel free to keep on with the helpful comments I see are your speciality based on your other posts.

Was going to suggest Fab or Feeld. Or just going to a club.

‘Fuck off’ - is that a good website to look for?

A little bit of needless hostility there when this question has been asked quite a bit before. It is a sex forum after all 😂

Could I ask?
What is it you’re asking for??

Thinking about it, I haven't ever gone through with any of these, but actually I've had plenty of willing offers on Tinder as well. You don't have to be looking anywhere specialist if you're straightforward about what you want.

And on most apps you can filter messages or go incognito - only be visible/accessible to people you've already liked, so you don't have to be inundated with likes/comments.

Interesting....can I pm you?

There are so many aspects to this kind of experience and I have so many questions!

In general, I was after pointers of how to find and vet people and hear of others experience or were you asking what the fetish I'm wanting to add in to it?

Sure pm me.

So I don’t know if you are the men or the women
start with Fabswingers, your problem is:- the lots of guys… and 99% of them are full of shit…
it will take you some time to find someone
better if it’s someone you get on with

Thanks I appreciate the pointers. I'm the man, do you have suggestions for weeding out the shit?

Would you suggest meeting them for a coffee or whatever first or does that just complicate things?