My husband often comes up with an excuse to not have sex with me. We only have sex when he wants which happens once a month. He is 36yo and I am 28.
When we travel we don’t have sex, he says he is tired, I look to my side am he is already sleeping.
last weekend we went out to a bar with his friends, we got drunk I am trying to be a little naught with him by saying “baby, shall we go home, I am horny for you” he started saying “why are u ruining the night? Stop saying that. Then we decided to go home, I stand up and started walking until he call me dramatic out of the blue?! I asked him why he got so nervous when I mentioned about having sex, he said that I know that he feels pressured when I comment about sex and that I didn’t even say I wanted to have sex in a sexy way. Blaming me instead of getting horny as well and taking me to the hotel room and fuck me.
he used to watch porn, he said he quit but i am staring to think that he didn’t.
when I try to initiate sex at home most of the time his dick doesn’t get hard!! And we do have sex he skips the foreplay, I feel he does that bc his dick won’t be hard for too long.
please, any advices?
thank you very much!