Threesome

[Billykidjim]

I made a mistake doing a threesome

Make a bigger mistake. Try a foursome.

She liked it more than me and I was humiliated by both.

You cannot turn the clock back even by a second. I'm really sorry you had a crap time, but it's in the past now. Move on with the knowledge of how it made you feel, and that maybe it's not for you. x

Was it you, your wife and another man?

You need to reflect on what you don't like, and to communicate about it.
Even as you speak here you struggle to describe what it was: are you married or partners? Was the third someone you know or a stranger? Did anyone mention boundaries of any kind?
To work out what not to repeat, you need to become able to describe it well. To us, or to your partner.

MFM or FMF?

We need some background here.

What was the make up, who suggested it, did you know the third person?

I have made this mistake when drunk more than once

Without any background it's difficult to comment. Personally I think you were brave to give it a go. As for feeling humiliated I think that says a great deal about the other two participants. Surely you were all in it for some fun not to judge. I hope you bounce back.

She liked sex with the other person more than you or she liked the 3some more than you.?

if she liked having sex then that’s a problem, but if liked the 3some more then you, that’s less of a problem as just say no to doing it again

I know this is old, but people need to stop acting on their lusts. There is a reason God said, one man and one woman. Situations like these are made by man and you get what you deserve. Sorry to say, deal with it.

😂😂 God . Will you ever off and cop on . No one needs to be preached to when looking for some advice after admitting they made a mistake. Save it for a Sunday in your empty church babbling

Some years ago with my then partner, we had a threesome with one of her friends and then afterwards we all went to her church.

I didn't get struck down or anything, so I guess God must have been pleased that we shared the love around.

Absolutely! GoD doesn't oversee Israel and Palestine conflict or Russia and Ukraine war. Oh no! God is here to police and punish those who sinners who dare to have normal feelings such as lust 😂

There is still time for you to be punished for your sins @bedtimeisthebest

God is watching 🧐

The post wasn't about "feelings of lust", it was about making a mistake of doing a threesome, albeit to a lack of sound judgment and self control.

You can eat whatever you want, but when you gain 100lbs acting out on normal feelings of hunger with no control of overeating, you run to the doctor for the Ozempic and want a quick fix. There is a price to pay and every thing has strings attached, thus consequences, and the question purposed which is more of a statement of poor actions.

"Some years ago with my then partner, we had a threesome with one of her friends and then afterwards we all went to her church"

Jesus said, narrow is the way.....few find it. Let that sink in.

@AppalachianGumbo I am so so sorry I know you mean well but I couldn't help but laugh at that closing line. So exciting yet dramatic 😂😂😂

Thank you for this! Have a good Friday 🙏