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What’s wrong with me???

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Intrigued80 · 06/07/2024 10:25

I am a very sexually active 40 yr old. My new BF of 3 years and changed me in some way. WHY am I turned on when I watch him masturbate?
more so than some I’d rather he masturbate in front of me and finish on me while I watch.
am I a freak???

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Springadorable · 06/07/2024 10:26

If your both happy then there's no issue?

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Intrigued80 · 06/07/2024 10:31

Springadorable · 06/07/2024 10:26

If your both happy then there's no issue?

That’s the issue. The last few times the only way he could finish was to watch porn and masturbate in front of me. We had sex for HOURS and he took Masturbating to porn for him to finish. My feelings were so hurt but I feel I created this.

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CharlotteLightandDark · 06/07/2024 22:44

Sounds bit tedious if it’s taking hours and that’s the only way he can finish. What’s he doing for you?

BenOnline70 · 21/07/2024 21:59

The problem isn’t you. It’s the porn. An excess of it. And I think lots of people like watching others masturbating. Including me. And being watched

Dlong · 21/09/2024 12:52

From a male perspective nothing wrong with being watched, we use the pull out method so I generally finish off over my wife’s boobs. I find it hot, so does she… two consenting adults behind closed doors, I also wouldn’t mind another woman watching through the window.

LR42 · 25/10/2024 14:20

Sorry if this is TMI, but trying to help.

If I have masturbated earlier in the day, and have sex later in the evening, it can take much longer for me to climax.

Hard to know if you are going to have sex of course, but I do find if I can abstain during the day (which isn't a big deal of course) then climaxing during sex is much easier.

I have had issues in the past, feeling self concious when it takes too long and then the nerves get the better of me and it takes longer!

EvenMoreFuriousVexation · 25/10/2024 14:41

Intrigued80 · 06/07/2024 10:31

That’s the issue. The last few times the only way he could finish was to watch porn and masturbate in front of me. We had sex for HOURS and he took Masturbating to porn for him to finish. My feelings were so hurt but I feel I created this.

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Sounds like he tried to stop himself cumming early on and jinxed himself. Happens a lot with guys. They're like "don't cum, don't cum, gotta last longer", hold it back with a immense effort, and then boom their balls go on strike.

Jimratt · 27/12/2024 13:16

Is it wrong that enjoy letting older woman watch me stroke on line? I do.love watching there faces a d the smiles it brings when I finish

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valentinka31 · 07/01/2025 20:47

Jimratt · 27/12/2024 13:16

Is it wrong that enjoy letting older woman watch me stroke on line? I do.love watching there faces a d the smiles it brings when I finish

no I think that is lovely. You are just sharing the pleasure. They are so happy too to see it. It is healthy for them. Even better if they were right next to you.

So don't feel at all bad - you are literally helping cheer them up, and you like it too. Mutual pleasure. Nothing wrong with that.

IcecreamWhatSandwich · 08/01/2025 21:44

Seems like this thread has been a little bit hijacked.

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