Couple toy ideas

[Namechange1990]

My partner and I have a rare child free evening coming up and want to make it special, can anyone give me some toy/games just general ideas to make it special we are both very open minded but want to make it special. All the toys I see seem to be women focused but looking for something for him

I am only commenting as I have the same problem, we would be open to toys etc but 99% are women focused and the men ones seem a bit meh. I asked my partner and he said "but men don't need toys". Maybe get one that he can use on you?

Hi op

There are a few ways you could go about it depending on what your budget is.

Do you want a specific toy for him (and there are plenty of option's) e.g. Guybrator or something to wear.

Something new for you that he’d enjoy. e.g. New toy he can use on you or something new to wear

Something along the lines of a sex based novelty or role play scenario that involves buying something new.

Last thing by special do you want romantic, fun/novel , to surprise him or something out of your comfort zones.

One option is to tease his sensitive spots with one of the regular toys targeted more commonly for female pleasure e.g. wand or vibe. Restraints could also be an option and there are also toys focused on anal play if that's something you're both interested in dabbling in. Remote control toys (whether focused on yourself or him) could also be fun to spice things up.

Hi @Namechange1990

its a shame you didn’t come back. Here’s 3 options

1 A Tenga egg inexpensive option silicone masturbator good starting toy. (£0 / £10)

2 Hot Octopus guybrator specialists ((£50 / £150) currently have 50% discount for pride

3 Have a look at Oxballs A warning that’s it’s definitely not love honey!! It’s a predominantly gay man sex toy brand but has a lot of options for items you’ve possibly never seen before😳 Has very interesting cock rings and ball slings

Hope that is of some use and not too late. Have a great night 👍

@Wakemeup17

Have a look at Oxballs you will definitely broaden his horizons 😉. They sell some stuff on love honey but their own site is extensive!!

https://oxballs.com/

A fleshlight? It can be used in rp, if you want FFM without getting the problem of actually having a real person there.

Look up Hello Jenny Keane on Instagram. She has an online sex toy shop & recently posted about some toys for couples. She's currently got some online workshops that are available as playback & they can be good for couples. Many don't get to the end of the workshop as they're too busy trying out the skills 😆

Are you talking about a friends experience?

Nookii and Monogamy are couples board games that get good reviews but we have not tried them, so I cannot comment on those, however we have tried a couple of games on the ipad which worked quite well. We have a varied selection of toys for use on either of us. It really depends on what you might like already or want to try.

Have a good browse of Lovehoney and Bondara and see if anything appeals to you. For us, when the mood and timing is right, we like things like under mattress restraints, paddles and dildos which might be too extreme for some, yet neither of us particularly like toys that vibrate, whereas other people much prefer that kind of toy.

For him specifically how about a strapon? Or as previous suggestions a fleshlight? If you want to make it special, what about some nice underwear for you both and film the action, for your eyes only?