Me on top, conscious of flabby stomach. Tips?

[Itsacoolsummer]

Just that really! Been seeing someone a few weeks and we've not actually done the deed yet, but we've been talking about what each other likes.
Turns out his fave position is woman on top and that he'd love to do this when we get down to things :)
I'd like to give it a try (never done it before) but I'm self conscious of my overweight, flabby stomach.
How can I disguise or at least flatter this when I'm on top?
I was thinking of a nightshirt and leave the bottom few buttons fastened to cover it.
Also thinking of squatting instead over being on my knees. Then maybe lean back a bit whilst squatting.
Any other ideas?

Reverse cowgirl?

Or wear a nice basque which you can just unpop and he will focus on your top half.

Or how about a nice silky camisole top with matching shorts/pants til you feel more confident

But honestly just don't overthink it. He will be too busy enjoying

If he likes you he won’t care. Personally I prefer naked rather than clothed even if the other person is not “perfect”. My gf has a classic mum bod, and I would not want anything else even though she moans about the lumps and bumps. Lets face it, unless he is a fitness freak he will have wobbly bits too!

For most men confidence is the sexiest thing about a woman, not a flat tummy. Forgot about what you consider to be the less attractive aspects of your body and throw yourself into the experience. Enjoy him, enjoy the sensations your body is giving you, and have fun.

Best wishes.

Agree he is unlikely to be bothered but is how you feel. I agree re the basque, perhaps holdups and if confident enough open fronted below with a full wax or similar so he has the full visual effects which in my view men love. You will feel his initial view drawn there.

Hope you have a really nice first time together and try not to overthink (but know we all do!)

I agree that confidence and a smile is all you need to wear. But if you really want to cover up, a babydoll or negligee would do the trick without restricting movement.

Personally I don’t really ‘sit up’ on top, I tend to lean forward so we can kiss / I can kiss his neck, ears etc. and he either holds me still and thrusts from underneath or I move my hips. His favourite is when I basically twerk, that’s a sure fire way to have him moaning / coming but also do the full up and down motion but as I say leaning forward.

if you want to be fully upright so you can grind / rock then definitely a sexy basque, or as you say a shirt with the top unbuttoned is super sexy. Actually up and down like this is hard work though I find.

or reverse cowgirl feels really good too and is more of a squat and up and down motion which shows off your arse rather than your tummy.

If you are on top, he is not going to notice. Personally l’m not one for dressing for the bedroom but that is down to the individual.

Doubt he’s going to be that bothered about your tummy

Lean back maybe, stretch out a bit. He will have a good view of being inside you too

I always feel like I can't get any movement here. My bf is very fit so brilliant on top whereas I feel like im very big. He really wants me to squat and have sex with him