No sex drive but no hormonal issues.. any ideas?

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I'm hoping someone out there has experienced similar or has any suggestions as to what I can try next...
I'm late 30s and have absolutely no sex drive. Hormones have been checked and apparently are fine (slightly low fsh but that's about it) hormones were checked on day 21 of my cycle and included testosterone checks etc.
This has been a problem for years, I'd say about 8 now and it genuinely upsets me that I don't know what to do about it.
There are no past traumas, I'm not on any contraception as i know that can affect it, I'm relatively fit and am currently exercising 3 times a week. I do have a 18 month old but he sleeps well and my partner helps so I'm not exhausted. This has also been a problem long before baby so I'm sure pregnancy etc has had nothing to do with it.

Any ideas? Or is this just it?

If you didn't have a sex drive pre baby perhaps you're non sexual/asexual. It may be as simple as that. We're not all the same. Having a high sex drive doesn't have to be normal.

How long have you been with your partner?

What was different 8 years ago?

I was probably average sex drive pre 8 years ago, with my partner 11 years so far (god love him). I had the contraceptive implant around that time which I think played some part. Had that taken out, went through a couple of different contraceptive options afterwards and then came off everything hoping my body would reset which hasn't worked