Hi, hoping someone can help.
Me and DH have been going through a difficult patch for a while and this has led to ED which has therefore led to a very dwindling sex life which I'm struggling with. (I believe the ED is caused by excessive porn viewing but that's a whole other issue!)
Trying not to put on too much pressure but we bought Viagra a couple of months back and this far he has been refusing to take it (not wanting to admit he needs it).
Anyway, this morning, I heard the pill packet crinkle and thought my luck was in - which it was - finally! About an hour after the deed, he disappears to the bathroom for over half an hour and mentions something about still having an erection. Anyway, turns out he had been watching porn although vehemently denies it.
I'm confused as I thought the sex was great and he did finish so can anyone offer up any advice on why he'd be doing that so soon after? Does the erection normally stay this long after sex with Viagra? I've tried asking him very calmly but he just gets angry with me and storms off, again denying (lying) about the porn.
Self esteem is rock bottom at the moment and just feeling that I'm not good enough that he needs to go to porn after sex with me 😢