How to improve things

[Chester6girls]

Bit of a random one but I would really like to improve my sex life with my husband. I do still fancy him but don't have a lot of confidence, we are often tired due to young children and it has all become a bit samey. Does anyone have recommendations on any books I could read or anything like that to give us more ideas etc as I would love to try a sex therapist but unfortunately we don't have the budget. Thanks

Try following Dr Karen Gurney on Instagram (she's the Sex Doctor on insta). She has two books out - Mind the Gap and How not to let having kids ruin your sex life.
She's also been on various podcasts too recently.

@flipflop76 thank you! I'll do that.

Massage- touching helps to build intimacy and could help your self confidence as well as relaxing you.
Texting through the day saying what you’d like to do or some naughty thoughts etc?
Saucy photos?
I think just taking the time out for connection is a good thing… and difficult with wee ones. So anything is a good start and it won’t always be so tricky.

Thank you so much @fourelementary. I think that's good advice.