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Dildo vs Vibrator

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Agiftandacurse · 06/04/2024 10:50

I’m just wondering if dildos ‘work’ for everyone or mainly only if you can orgasm from penetration? I can get there from a g spot type vibrator (but takes a lot longer than bullet etc). Me and FWB have discussed trying a dildo but not sure if would be a waste of money. or maybe we’d have fun trying it anyway!

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GigiAnnna · 06/04/2024 11:11

I used a dildo when I was dating a woman years ago and I could orgasm with it but now I'm married to a man I don't feel I need that as I prefer clitoral stimulation for solo masturbation. So I prefer a vibe, but it's personal choice and what feels best for you.

DixonD · 07/04/2024 00:56

I can orgasm through penetration but only occasionally have with a dildo. I dislike them really but I won’t go into why as it’s complicated. I find vibrators are better for personal enjoyment purposes.

StarlightLady · 07/04/2024 09:41

I’ve never owned a dildo, but over the years l’ve owned enough well used vibrators to open a vibey museum.

I don’t get the dildo concept. If it were all so simple, l’d also get pleasure from a tampon which l don’t and would be surprised if any woman does.

DixonD · 07/04/2024 11:51

StarlightLady · 07/04/2024 09:41

I’ve never owned a dildo, but over the years l’ve owned enough well used vibrators to open a vibey museum.

I don’t get the dildo concept. If it were all so simple, l’d also get pleasure from a tampon which l don’t and would be surprised if any woman does.

Yes, this. In my experience, dildos are more for men (the viewing experience!) than for women.

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Agiftandacurse · 07/04/2024 12:50

I think these are all my thoughts too. I might buy a cheap one to try with him but I’m unlikely to use on my own

thanks

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StarlightLady · 07/04/2024 12:56

OP, there are plenty of dildo shaped vibies on the market. It nay save you wasting your money on something for male entertainment.

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Agiftandacurse · 07/04/2024 13:52

That’s a very good idea!! I’ll have a look on lovehoney later and see if I can find one.

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GigiAnnna · 07/04/2024 19:03

DixonD · 07/04/2024 11:51

Yes, this. In my experience, dildos are more for men (the viewing experience!) than for women.

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I think some men think that when women masturbate we just stick things up ourselves but in my opinion there's a big difference between having a nice long and thick penis or dildo filling you up and hitting your G spot than simply inserting a tampon. Some of really do find penetration orgasmic, even if the majority of women don't.

Chemistrychic · 07/04/2024 21:53

They are very different beasts and give completely different orgasms. Depends what you're in the mood for. Definitely worth trying if you haven't yet. I recommend the glass ones.

BunnyOnTheOnion · 07/04/2024 22:50

I wouldn't get much from using a dildo on it's own but do find it can enhance or prolong a clitoral orgasm (whether that's from fingers or a vibe). Agree with PP who suggested glass, I think it looks and feels much nicer.

DixonD · 08/04/2024 01:00

GigiAnnna · 07/04/2024 19:03

I think some men think that when women masturbate we just stick things up ourselves but in my opinion there's a big difference between having a nice long and thick penis or dildo filling you up and hitting your G spot than simply inserting a tampon. Some of really do find penetration orgasmic, even if the majority of women don't.

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Yes, this is absolutely my experience as well. They don’t listen when you tell them otherwise either.

Osirus · 08/04/2024 20:12

I’ve never tried glass, I guess I’m worried it might break 😂

We use dildos occasionally but it’s mostly for DH’s viewing entertainment.

B1rd · 08/04/2024 23:41

Dildos and dildo shaped vibrators don't do much for me. But i can't recommend the Satisfyer pro 2 highly enough.
Also, you can generally find vibrators cheaper on Amazon than love honey or Bondara.

Runningoutofusernamestochange · 09/04/2024 20:25

Chemistrychic · 07/04/2024 21:53

They are very different beasts and give completely different orgasms. Depends what you're in the mood for. Definitely worth trying if you haven't yet. I recommend the glass ones.

Just out of interest, as I’ve never tried one, don’t you worry about it snapping/shattering?

PinotPony · 09/04/2024 21:03

Well there's dildos and then there's dildos...

I'm not a huge fan of straight phallus like dildos but my Njoy is an absolute delight as it's curved so hits all the g spot buttons. I also have a glass one for temperature play which is kinda fun. DP recently bought me a Phreak toy and I was surprised how much I enjoyed it after I got over the size of the monster!

I couldn't be without vibrators but I'd definitely recommend trying a few dildos to see if you like them too.

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Agiftandacurse · 09/04/2024 22:33

The njoy one looks fab but £150! Are there any features I should look for in a much cheaper model? I’ll look for something curved…

I did actually find a nice g spot vibe that looks like it could be used as a dildo too (as @StarlightLady suggested). Do you think that would be giving it a fair go to see if I like/May want to try a more ££ one in the future

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Wakemeup17 · 10/04/2024 03:59

StarlightLady · 07/04/2024 09:41

I’ve never owned a dildo, but over the years l’ve owned enough well used vibrators to open a vibey museum.

I don’t get the dildo concept. If it were all so simple, l’d also get pleasure from a tampon which l don’t and would be surprised if any woman does.

You clearly haven't tried oral sex when on your period with a tampon in ;)

StarlightLady · 10/04/2024 07:25

@Wakemeup17 - Yes l have, but with no benefit from the tampon.

Chemistrychic · 10/04/2024 09:50

Runningoutofusernamestochange · 09/04/2024 20:25

Just out of interest, as I’ve never tried one, don’t you worry about it snapping/shattering?

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No they're pretty solid.

Wakemeup17 · 10/04/2024 09:54

StarlightLady · 10/04/2024 07:25

@Wakemeup17 - Yes l have, but with no benefit from the tampon.

Oh, it's just me then but I do benefit from the tampon ;)

Shropshiregirl51 · 10/04/2024 12:35

Vibe only does it for me. Doxy wand is my goto

Tufter · 10/04/2024 16:36

My favorite masturbation method is to start with a Durex bullet focused on my clitoris and then as I get aroused/wet, slowly push a non-working (actually very old and broken) penis sized vibrator inside and move it in and out very slightly (two handed method!). I find that the "full" feeling triggers a much stonger orgasm than just having an empty vagina. It feels like the contractions I get on orgasm have something to grip on.
For some reason I can't achieve the same with PIV or a buzzing vibe inside. I once achieved it with DH's fingers inside but it was never repeatable that way - has to be the old faithful clapped out vibrator (20 years old - my very first one that I a former BF got me - the best present he ever bought me).

JTRSOP · 30/04/2024 22:26

It’s interesting how different we can be. I’ve always preferred dildos over external, clit-focused vibrators. I like the feeling of something inside. It’s nice to have both at the same time though.

RoséProsecco · 01/05/2024 11:40

I use a rabbit-type vibrator for that feeling of fullness plus clitoral stimulation- a winning combination!

StarlightLady · 01/05/2024 11:53

RoséProsecco · 01/05/2024 11:40

I use a rabbit-type vibrator for that feeling of fullness plus clitoral stimulation- a winning combination!

The one l had made a noise akin to a cement mixer which put me off my stroke, maybe they have improved/got quiter?

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