Embarrassing Orgasm

[AFlavourofAva]

Ok, so this is an embarrassing situation that I don’t don’t know what I should do about, so just after some advice. Here goes, please be gentle:

my husbands friend is a sports massage therapist and I’m running a marathon in a few weeks. He offered a massage to help loosen me up for the race. I should say he was professional throughout, didn’t do anything untoward. But while he was massaging me, I orgasmed. I’m certain he didn’t notice but I have no idea why or how this happened. There was no intimate touching, just massage and conversation and then a very sudden build up and release. I was so grateful my face was in the hole in the table as I was so embarrassed. This hasCertainly never happened before and I don’t know what I should do. Should I tell my husband? He’s offered more massage therapy that I’ve so far dodged saying anything about it but what reason can I say no for? Has anyone else had random spontaneous orgasms like this? Is this a perimenopause thing? Help!

I have them in my sleep sometimes. Don't be embarrassed, lucky you, i wish my husband could give me an orgasmic massage , sounds heavenly

A deep massage can activate the pudendal nervous system. This nervous system is prevalent throughout the body with the apex being the clitoris.
Activating this nervous system is used in tantric somatics and massages.

Sounds good! Send his details over! 😀

Only you know how your husband would react. Go by your own judgement.

l would certainly go for more!

I'm surprised your husband was happy for his mate to give you a massage so I wouldn't mention the orgasm. If this definitely happened, other than in your head, did you not feel a bit awkward? Sorry, it's just really weird.

I want his number as well 😂

Is his name Brian? From Hull?

Was it a YONI message from Brian?

I really wouldn't tell your husband! Although honesty is usually the best policy, he may find it hard to believe that his friend hasn't done something inappropriate or that you fancied the pants off him.

Ah well, how do I say this. In a spa I was having a deep massage and I did enjoy the warmth it generated. The lady smiled at me in a knowing questioning way. I wish I had said yes carry on. I didn't though. Never got the moment back.
It must happen quite often.

I’ve decided to not tell him, I think he might think it was because I fancied him (which I don’t). Didn’t get the Brian references and have now learnt about Yoni… glad I didn’t google at work!

So your saying noni to the next massage OP?

It’s a thread in classics. It’s very funny if you ever get time to read it.

Hi @AFlavourofAva, I don’t understand how you could have an orgasm without the massage therapist noticing?

right decision I think. No more need to tell him than if you'd pleasured yourself and whatever may have floated through your mind. And as you say your husband could think you fancied other bloke. Or that you were trying to tease him/wind him up.

It wasn't her husband. That's the problem 😕

That does not concur with my understanding of the word “problem”!

Problem? Definitely no problem!

Hi @GeraniumGirl, apologies for the delay, I don’t usually frequent this sub. It wasn’t a moaning, bed thumping ‘Harry met Sally’ type experience. More sudden intense, grit teeth and keep my head down. My face might’ve been the give away, but that was in a hole and he was at my calf.

If he was at your calf, could he have seen your contractions?

No joke this actually happened to me when I got a massage

This happened to me 3 times at the massage therapist. He warned me beforehand that it happened quite often and not to worry if it did, just let it out. For my part, it's impossible to hide it, I'm noisy and I squirt when I have an orgasm.

keep going and don't feel embarrassed or guilty. its your body and pleasure.

At the therapist, i think the squirting was gentle

I remember going for a run in tight shorts and it was rubbing on my clit more the harder I ran, ended up having a real intense orgasm

Maybe l’ll take up running 🤩!