Advice/recomendations

[Geminislayer]

Hi all, male here and wanted some advice on the following problem.

I have recently been diagnosed with Peyronie disease, which is a severe bend of the penis . Can be treated but takes a while .Its at a stage now where penetration is becoming uncomfortable for my wife and I think maybe some toys might get us trough till some normality resumes. The only problem is she is very sensitive down there and your traditional vibe is a definite no, what other options are out there?
I see some people saying satisfier from Amazon ? Others something from Lelo?

any advice would be much appreciated

Does she want vibe type toys, or toys for penetration or both? We do not like vibey stuff at all, particularly with penetration, as neither of likes the sensation. We both prefer dildos of various shapes and sizes, but many on here will recommend thins like the womaniser, bullet vibe etc.

Going by your comment about sensitivity, I am guessing that your DW would prefer penetration type toys? If you look on Lovehoney some of their "basics" dildos are good quality and can be used by you on her, or by her with you doing something else. They range from slim to extra girthy depending on her preference.

Good luck with the treatment!

The satisfyer is a suction toy that uses air pulse rather than vibration. It's gentle stimulation that builds up to a powerful clitoral orgasm. It's an option if she finds a traditional vibrator too intense, although you can get lots of vibrators with a variety of settings, including lower ones. The Satisfyer can be very intense in its own way as it makes the clit extremely senstive. Personally I don't like it, I find the build up too slow and the orgasm almost too much. A dildo is another option if she wants penetration.

If you're looking for a toy to replace PIV kinds of sex I'd recommend a dildo with a flared base and a thigh harness (it looks like a neoprene knee brace and it vecros around your thigh to hold the dildo in place). It means you can achieve most of the positions you would with PIV and as no one is holding a toy you can still both use both your hands wherever you would do during PIV. She can also reach your genitals whilst you are wearing it so, if it's comfortable for your condition, you can receive attention too.

You can also get strap on dildos which sit over your penis. That might be an option if it wasn't too uncomfortable for you to wear.

I think this sounds like a good option to have available.

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/dildos/realistic-dildos/p/lifelike-lover-luxe-realistic-multicoloured-silicone-dildo-7-inch/a38847g71433.html - I'm a fan of this one ...

@BrianWankum love the username! 😂

Thanks to everyone who took the time to reply . I think from what you guys have described a dildo might be the way to go for starters , and keep the clitoral stimulation the hands or oral .
I quite like the idea of maybe a suction cup dildo also .