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Ag2520 · 14/02/2024 06:50

Hi I was was hoping for a bit of help me and my husband have been wanting a threesome with another male for some time and we have been on sites and talked to people but we have had a lot of trouble with either the profile been fake of people then backing out last minute , were kind of at a stage were we don't know if we trust them now. We didn't think it would be this difficult lol if anybody has any ideas of other sites or ways we can arrange it we would be grateful

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Pinnermum80 · 14/02/2024 13:56

Hi my DH and I have regular threesomes with other men. When we started it wasn't easy and we learned by error tbh. Everyone is different but our advice would be narrow down what you are looking for in the man age, size etc and one off regular. The main site we use is Fabswingers it's probably the best. Some couples use tinder or other apps even telegram, we've used that to contact with guys. Most men want pics and or do not want to chat but your in charge and take it at your pace chat don't share pics straight away and then arrange a meet at a social place for a drink and run if all is ok. Do not be afraid to say no you're not for us even if your at the hotel / bedroom .

Maccar305 · 14/02/2024 15:02

Another vote for fabswingers here.

@Pinnermum80 gives good advice and as the occasional +1M it works both ways .... plenty of "couples" either disappear or block, seemingly randomly 🤷‍♂️.
All you can do is chat as much as you need for that "gut reassurance."
I know some ask to swap mobile numbers just prior to meets to chat and even quick video to check id.

Ultimately, there's no full proof way, but always follow your gut instinct.

Good luck

GentlemanJay · 14/02/2024 16:25

I've met lots of couples on Fab. It's like the "Wild West" on there. I've managed to meet some genuinely lovely people. Some I consider to be friends as much as anything else.

Ag2520 · 14/02/2024 19:02

Thankyou we'll try fabswingers

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foxy735 · 14/02/2024 22:00

Unfortunately fakes cant be avoided completely but I agree with everyone else. Fabswingers is the probably the best site. Just be careful with photos and phone numbers. Its not just about protecting your pictures its also about ensuring that any pictures they send you are genuine. Arrange to meet in public place. Hotels are also a good idea to keep you home address safe.

Shropshiregirl51 · 15/02/2024 08:57

Hey guys

We have had the pleasure of additional lovers. Advice from us.

don't share face photos there is no need. You’re in control.

meet for coffee first and take it slow

discuss what you both want. Our first and most frequent was a lot younger at 28. It just felt easier that way. He was. Wry well endowed which we loved visually but some men could be intimidated

remember. Getting home after a meet and regretting not going further is great. Regretting what you have done isnt!

take it slow any guy worth it will wait!!

Donk2879 · 07/03/2024 07:09

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Idontjetwashthefucker · 07/03/2024 07:59

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🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

CORPSICLE · 07/03/2024 08:42

😂😂

LilyMumsnet · 07/03/2024 09:09

Well, that's one way to kill the mood! We'll show 'Donk' the door now.

everywhichway · 07/03/2024 09:49

Thonks but No Thonks then.

Shropshiregirl51 · 07/03/2024 12:55

What did I miss comments deleted!

Idontjetwashthefucker · 07/03/2024 13:03

Shropshiregirl51 · 07/03/2024 12:55

What did I miss comments deleted!

Some bloke offering himself up on a plate, with detailed measurements too

Shropshiregirl51 · 07/03/2024 13:21

Ah splendid. Yea I do note the frequency of private messages from males on this site!!

more importantly was he of suitable appendage ha ha!

KevinFromMotherland · 07/03/2024 13:48

There was a photo too. Also said where he lived. ( not the exact address right enough but who knows what was coming next )

KevinFromMotherland · 07/03/2024 13:49

It was not a private message though @Shropshiregirl51

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