My January can’t be more dry
its my first preg and now in third trimester,
first trimester me and DH still have sex
From second trimester onwards , he no longer look at me sexy. He appreciate me in a different way. Like preg glow - still praise me pretty all the time.
Although we both have knowledge it’s safe to have sex during preg. He just no action. He knew in second trimester , preg may make me have high sex drive, he would joke about it. Like can’t wait for second trimester to have more fun. But nth had happened. Like when he see my belly , he cannot disassociate a human being in it - likely because of that put him off.
few days ago I gave a massive hint to start sth, he just shut me down. I was angry and upset.
not only that that evening we heard our neighbour having the best sex ever!!! Lol
what an irony .
then DH was like sorry I know we didn’t do sth for long time , I am aware of it. But again just talk the talk and nth happen.
we both also don’t want to be so fix too, like let’s do sex now. We both more like keep natural and let mood dictate.
but I feel more and more not fully satisfied . As in I also have my needs.
also before we get preg, he would always laugh at the guys beside the preg women saying they probably 9 month no sex , that’s why they looking around staring at other women.
now I am preg and no issue to have sex. It’s him that can’t have sex more than me!!
any advice ? Or what would you do?