Just need suggestions

[birchtree23]

I'm a 40 year old woman with a low sex drive but blaming the anti- depressant I take for anxiety.
Just want a little boost as just can't be bothered most of the time? Maybe it's normal?
I'm happy with my husband so no problems there and a busy life with a 5 year old.

Any suggestions? Don't want to come off the medication either as it's working.

No suggestions but didn't want to read and run. I'm In a similar situation. Since I had the coil - my sex drive is extremely low. I know it bugs my oh as it was quite high prior.

I try and get in the mood at least once every two weeks but honestly could easily go without.

Hopefully others have some ideas though!

I've got the rod in as well so could be the 2 combined 😂😂.

Not easy with a 5yo even without the medication.

Can you get a night or weekend away, just the two of you? Plan for it making sure that you both are prepared and then take lots of time warming up. Hubbie has to be fully aware that he has to be patient and attentive, Avoid booze. Introduce something new - toys, role play, positions etc.

Time and time.

Good luck.

You might see if having sex makes you want to have sex - you don't always need to be in the mood first - as long as you're not opposed to sex, say yes and see where that gets you.