Never had an orgasm. Is there any hope for me?

[Rosesbehindthesnow]

In my 50s and never had an orgasm either on my own or with a partner.

Any suggestions or is there no chance now?

That looks a bit complicated for me. I’m not sure where my clitoris is, let alone my G-spot

I think this might explain why you’ve never had an orgasm.

Bit harsh but probably fair comment

Magic wand?

Actually, I don't think so. Many of us had orgasms before we knew anything about a clitoris, still less a G-spot.

We just fiddled around until it felt good. And if OP hasn't done this, and wants to find out what she's been missing (a few moments of intense pleasure, that's about it) then that's what she needs to find out.

With the vibe I posted op, it’ll find your clit and g spot for you. The shape is designed for that very purpose! Obviously you can position the clit suction bit specifically for how you want it, but I wouldn’t worry too much about the mechanics. If your main goal is to experience an orgasm this is a very good toy to help with that.

To orgasm I have to actually rub the vibrator I use around in small circles fairly fast around my clit. Just holding it on there feels nice but I can't orgasm from it

Hi OP I hope progress is being made. Do you watch lesbian porn? Some of the more tasteful sites show the necessary area in some detail. You might learn something.
Bellesa has actors. Not desperate amateurs.

@Rosesbehindthesnow
Needs a mind and body approach!

Read Come as your are
Read Mind the Gap
Complete OMGYES 1 The Essentials 2 Inner Pleasure 3 Toy Techniques (Not free but worth it) find what you like
Follow pod cast Shameless sex
Follow pod cast come as you are

Buy Hitachi Magic wand mains powered (This should do it on its own 😀)
Buy top end clitoral suction toy (womaniser or lelo sona wave)
Buy a top end bullet (hot octopus amo)
Buy top grade silicone lube for fingers (Uber lube,Sqlid) water based for toys and definitely worth trying CBD lube (CBD Bristol)

Optional extra: Partner who is patient and interested in your pleasure. Is not intimidated by toys and does there own work on technique. loving giving oral is a big bonus 👍

You can do this xxx

I would put the partner loving giving oral at the top of the list, not an add on bonus!

Thank you so much. If all that doesn’t help then there is no hope!
I have signed up to OMGYES so I’ll see how I get on and report back 😊

@StarlightLady
I agree but in this context where it’s unknown if Op has a partner I wouldn’t want to imply that it wasn’t possible without one.

@Rosesbehindthesnow
The very best of luck! you have definitely made a positive move forward enjoy the journey x

@AdiosHombre - Sorry! I didn’t mean to suggest it wan’t possible without one.

OP, on the “clitty search” (my words) l really think it’s time for a lovely bath, dry off, lay down comfortably and further explore your own body by touch in great detail. That magic button is there.

OP don't be down heartened. It can happen. I didn't have sex till 45. Fell hook.line and sinker for a sexuslly selfish partner. No orgasm, not even with toys. Later met simeone and orgasmed on my own with toys and also when we were together using toys on each other during sex. Try the womanizer from Love Honey. The reason orgasmed happened was he was more concerned about my pleasure than my previous partner. I was up front about the poor sex, we enjoyed pleasing each other.

Inspired by another similar recent update. How are you getting on.

@Rosesbehindthesnow

Hoping you have not been back as you are having to much fun.x