Married man pursuing me for sex

[winterrabbit]

Bit of a weird situation. I am 47, married and with 3 kids. About a year ago I became quite friendly with one of the dad's in DS2's football team although I am friends with a lot of the parents. The friendliness just consisted of a few pitchside chats and the occasional message via Whatsapp. About 6 months ago he started texting me quite regularly, casual and friendly at first, but then became starting saying how much he likes me, how beautiful I am, can we meet up etc? I ignored it to begin with but have started to engage slightly, saying I like him as a friend but am married. He is also married with 2 kids. Just seems really odd as he is now saying he has fallen in love with me, can we meet etc, noone will know. I am married (2nd marriage, first husband had an affair and we split) and although we have issues our sex life is really good. I also don"t think I could cheat on DH either physically or morally. I am still a bit curious though and finding it quite odd behaviour on his part. I can only assume he does this all the time and is looking for casual sex. He does seem a nice guy though.

I do also find the constant second guessing about the identity of posters from some quarters very bizarre as well

What do you mean, @Offwiththecircus ?

I do though find it very often curiously the case that those promoting strict morality are quite often the first to use four letter words in their responses.

Nice tone policing 👌For the record, having and expressing a personal dislike of cheats/wannabe-cheats and those who are hypocritical about cheating isn't "promoting strict morality", it's just not liking cheating because I've seen too many women's lives blown apart by it, including right here on MN. And I'd feel the same about that whether I used naice ladylike language that meets with your approval or whether I swore like a fucking trooper.

I presume they mean my suggestion that not all the posters who claim to be female on this board are female.

You'd have to be very naive indeed and have no knowledge about or experience of any hookup or similar sites whatsoever to be unaware that many, many men pretend to be women, whether that's to encourage actual women to open up about their experiences to get material for their wank banks, because they're closeted gay and want dick pics, to get money / gifts from gullible men or just for shits and giggles.

*The poster is under no liability whatsoever for any attacks of the vapours brought about by the use of expletives in this post. Read here at your own risk.