Kinks but feel embarrassed

[shy119]

Has anyone ever felt ashamed by their kinks? When me an oh explore fantasy I'm so into it but as soon as we have both finished I feel dirty?
My kink is being with a woman an sharing her with him.. is it normal to feel this way? Anybody else?

Its definitely a thing. There are a couple of things that we do that we love, but initially afterwards we get a slightly guilty/ashamed feeling. I think that adds to the nuaghtiness.

@shy119 myself and DH are similar. We don't tend to have really open discussions about sex until in bed and, I suppose I have to be really aroused. Once I am, I'm able to open up and must admit I love the effect it has on him and how turned on he is. He had a kink I never thought he would but I really liked he had opened up to me

That just sounds like a very common fantasy rather than a kink OP. I’m no expert though.

As long as it doesn’t harm anyone else, you shouldn’t feel ashamed of what you’re into.