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Looking for a book

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LittleGreenFroggie · 01/12/2023 10:33

Hi!

As title suggests, I'm looking for a book. Specifically a book on how to talk dirty to your partner. I want to get one for my boyfriend for Christmas but can only find books written by women on how to talk dirty for your man!

I know it can probably be adapted to switch the other way round but I'd rather get one aimed at how to talk dirty to women. My OH is a little shy in that respect so I'm hoping to find a book to give him some ideas.

Any suggestions?? I've tried googling and sites like Ann Summers and even WHSmith but no luck!

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GigiAnnna · 01/12/2023 12:24

Not sure about books but I've seen YouTube channels with this sort of content.

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LittleGreenFroggie · 01/12/2023 12:28

Will try that then, thank you! Was hoping for a book/stocking filler so will keep looking in the meantime.

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JoanMacIntosh · 01/12/2023 13:13

TikTok or Instagram- there are accounts run by men for men and the content is often spot on.

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LittleGreenFroggie · 01/12/2023 16:34

Thank you! Will have a look and send him links!

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Graasspp · 01/12/2023 17:03

Write him a phrase book with what exactly you want in.

WereHereAndItsNow · 01/12/2023 21:25

I found listening to Audio Porn has improved my talk game. Bloom Stories has both male and female dirty talk narration. There’s also an AI dirty talk chat bot so you can also improve your sexting and then take that into the bedroom. You could buy him a subscription think I pay £5 a month. You can trial some for free.

I do like @Graasspp Idea though. I’d really appreciate a list of things that my partner wanted to hear. I might write her one and see if it’s reciprocated.

Graasspp · 02/12/2023 11:30

WereHereAndItsNow · 01/12/2023 21:25

I found listening to Audio Porn has improved my talk game. Bloom Stories has both male and female dirty talk narration. There’s also an AI dirty talk chat bot so you can also improve your sexting and then take that into the bedroom. You could buy him a subscription think I pay £5 a month. You can trial some for free.

I do like @Graasspp Idea though. I’d really appreciate a list of things that my partner wanted to hear. I might write her one and see if it’s reciprocated.

My tip was for a woman to give a phrasebook to a man. Not sure I like the idea of man giving it to woman. And yes it is different.

WereHereAndItsNow · 02/12/2023 22:19

It’s a great idea to communicate your desires irrespective of the sex of the recipient of which I am grateful for. Thanks #loveislove x

Rieslinger · 05/01/2024 10:55

Sorry I'm late to the thread...just a thought what would you like to hear...maybe start there?

Also how about taking a leaf from sexting...found this on amazon..

https://www.amazon.co.uk/Sexting-Grownups-Little-Getting-Digitally/dp/1592337058

https://www.amazon.co.uk/Sexting-Grownups-Little-Getting-Digitally/dp/1592337058?tag=mumsnet&ascsubtag=mnforum-sex-4954330-looking-for-a-book

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