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Cunnilingus

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VelvetVoice · 01/12/2023 08:43

Been seeing a man for 6 months, he likes to use a wedge pillow underneath me for cunnilingus but…now that we are getting serious, I wonder how many times he did the same with other women and now I want him to buy a brand new one just for me.
I know it is silly because I don’t have the same thought about the bed itself, the other pillows, the sheets etc…but for some reason the wedge pillow feels more intimate.

AIBU? I think I will bring this up this weekend.

BTW - his is a normal wedge pillow for sleeping but there are specific ones for foreplay, so I will suggest the latter.

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Gowlett · 01/12/2023 08:46

He’s used it with other women, for sure.
Make it fun together getting a new one.

Umbellifer · 01/12/2023 08:52

Buy a new one as a Christmas present?

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VelvetVoice · 01/12/2023 08:53

Gowlett · 01/12/2023 08:46

He’s used it with other women, for sure.
Make it fun together getting a new one.

Yah, I have some banter on my head about the pillow and maybe we can shop online for a new one (and some toys)

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FrostyFlo · 01/12/2023 08:57

@VelvetVoice

OMG - please tell me the toys aren't 2nd hand also !

Ittastesvile · 01/12/2023 09:07

Yanbu.
I felt the same about now-DH's bed. Luckily it was old and uncomfortable so it was very easy to convince him to buy a new one!

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VelvetVoice · 01/12/2023 09:08

We are not using any toys and I’m not aware he has any ~ but I want to introduce it especially since I’ve never used

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ProvisionsOnTheDock · 01/12/2023 09:09

Well that's put me right off my porridge. You know there's a sex topic?

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VelvetVoice · 01/12/2023 09:18

ProvisionsOnTheDock · 01/12/2023 09:09

Well that's put me right off my porridge. You know there's a sex topic?

nobody forced you to click on the post ~ the title is pretty self explanatory

and my question is not only about sex but a relationship evolving

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MuckyPlucky · 01/12/2023 09:31

The idea of a wedge shaped pillow adds an unpleasant orthopaedic-type element to being gone down on, in my mind. 🤢

Pocketfullofdogtreats · 01/12/2023 09:39

Kinda lingers...
Sorry. I'm old

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VelvetVoice · 01/12/2023 10:01

MuckyPlucky · 01/12/2023 09:31

The idea of a wedge shaped pillow adds an unpleasant orthopaedic-type element to being gone down on, in my mind. 🤢

yeah - I want a new one with velvety fabric in red or purple - heck I will never use that shit again - it was novelty at the beggining but now 😩

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SingingSands · 01/12/2023 10:43

Oh yes, def get that binned, you deserve a brand new one! Well why not go all out - after all, it is Christmas! - and get...

A sex couch!!

www.lovehoney.co.uk/bondage/sex-swings-machines/sex-furniture-position-enhancers/p/liberator-cello-sex-couch/a48026g85737.html

UpUpUpU · 01/12/2023 10:46

Yeah I’d want new too.

My partner bought a new mattress and pillows when we got together and we bought new sex toys. Mine had only been for my personal use but a new relationship calls for new things in my opinion. Enjoy shopping!

Greensleevevssnotnose · 01/12/2023 12:56

I had an ex present me with a bag of used sex toys on the train to.a weekend away. I was fumi g and through the out the train window. I should have left hom.therrd and then but limped on for several months till I found out he was married with kids. Bastard

Greensleevevssnotnose · 01/12/2023 12:58

Sorry on phone and can't see well.

C1N1C · 01/12/2023 13:37

I guess the real question of this topic is: Sexy underwear, toys, lubes, etc. are expensive. Do you buy a new arsenal for every partner? Would you expect news ones to be bought for you/your partner?

legalseagull · 01/12/2023 13:42

C1N1C · 01/12/2023 13:37

I guess the real question of this topic is: Sexy underwear, toys, lubes, etc. are expensive. Do you buy a new arsenal for every partner? Would you expect news ones to be bought for you/your partner?

Yes. I would never use a butt plug from my DH on another man! Would you use a vibrator another woman had used 🤮

Doseofreality · 01/12/2023 13:43

As you going to make him get a new tongue as well?

Flatbellyfella · 01/12/2023 13:45

What way does the V shape face when you use the pillow?

FuckoffeeBeforeCoffee · 01/12/2023 13:49

Greensleevevssnotnose · 01/12/2023 12:56

I had an ex present me with a bag of used sex toys on the train to.a weekend away. I was fumi g and through the out the train window. I should have left hom.therrd and then but limped on for several months till I found out he was married with kids. Bastard

Imagine the look on the face of the person who found that! 🤣

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VelvetVoice · 01/12/2023 18:23

Greensleevevssnotnose · 01/12/2023 12:56

I had an ex present me with a bag of used sex toys on the train to.a weekend away. I was fumi g and through the out the train window. I should have left hom.therrd and then but limped on for several months till I found out he was married with kids. Bastard

Littering🙀Should have given to a charity shop😹

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JustACountryMusicGirlInCowboyBoots · 01/12/2023 18:39

Doseofreality · 01/12/2023 13:43

As you going to make him get a new tongue as well?

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Thisisworsethananticpated · 01/12/2023 18:52

Would you use a vibrator another woman had used

they can be washed ! As can his dick

but I’m with you in the cushion 100%

I want a man with a special cushion for oral now

Chellybelle · 01/12/2023 20:48

Thisisworsethananticpated · 01/12/2023 18:52

Would you use a vibrator another woman had used

they can be washed ! As can his dick

but I’m with you in the cushion 100%

I want a man with a special cushion for oral now

That's gross. A penis might have been in multiple women but sex toys are readily available that you can just buy a new one!

WereHereAndItsNow · 01/12/2023 21:45

Hi @VelvetVoice can see you point if it doesn’t have a washable cover.

We have the Toughage inflatable sex pillow of EBay £14 and the liberator wedge £100 (washable cover)Both do the trick but there is an obvious difference.

Have you seen the liberator heart wedge? I don’t need another one but it’s is pretty cute.

@MuckyPlucky I wouldn’t knock it until you’ve tried it! Has seemingly turned Mr Velvetvoice into a keeper lol

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