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VelvetVoice · 01/12/2023 08:43

Been seeing a man for 6 months, he likes to use a wedge pillow underneath me for cunnilingus but…now that we are getting serious, I wonder how many times he did the same with other women and now I want him to buy a brand new one just for me.
I know it is silly because I don’t have the same thought about the bed itself, the other pillows, the sheets etc…but for some reason the wedge pillow feels more intimate.

AIBU? I think I will bring this up this weekend.

BTW - his is a normal wedge pillow for sleeping but there are specific ones for foreplay, so I will suggest the latter.

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WildflowersInAMasonJar · 04/12/2023 11:28

You could say the same to any other post in this whole platform

I think when it’s an issue around sex, it’s important to do what feels right to you, more so than with many other things in life.

Also this thread was originally in the relationship board but someone had issues with the topic and asked this to be moved to the sex board

I think that probably because of the title, and again, women may have been suspicious of it. Some pervs post on other boards because if they have only just registered, they can’t post on the sex topic for a week. Not saying you’re a perv! 😂

Anyway, you wanted a new pillow, you’ve got one. May it bring you much happiness. 😂

BIWI · 04/12/2023 14:41

@VelvetVoice It is a post about sex, not really about relationships, therefore - I assume - that's why it was reported and/or moved to the sex topic.

But it raises an important point. So often now, you see questions about sex on boards other than the sex topic - most often in relationships. I wonder if it's because so many women are put off from posting in 'pervs corner?!

WereHereAndItsNow · 04/12/2023 14:58

Hi @VelvetVoice

You've had some unfair and unnecessary replies.

You will love your new purchase! So pleased that you’ve gone and bought one for yourself.

If you go on a website called Kinkly (I won’t link it) There is a comprehensive position guide that you can filter to include the wedge to give you ideas to get maximum value from it. I’ve had mine for years and this was helpful.

Enjoy

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VelvetVoice · 04/12/2023 17:28

BIWI · 04/12/2023 14:41

@VelvetVoice It is a post about sex, not really about relationships, therefore - I assume - that's why it was reported and/or moved to the sex topic.

But it raises an important point. So often now, you see questions about sex on boards other than the sex topic - most often in relationships. I wonder if it's because so many women are put off from posting in 'pervs corner?!

Sex and romantic relationships usually go together and it is a post about a new relationship in relation to new boyfriend’s past relationships habits so not really strictly about sex.
The question was not about the benefits of sex pillow but about using a sex pillow that was probably used before with past partners and how women would feel about it. The sex part of the question was actually not that relevant as it was more about feelings.

And I made the title explicit so people would know what they were clicking on.

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BIWI · 04/12/2023 18:14

<shrugs>

The whole thread does read as if it's more about sex though.

(But it wasn't my decision anyway!)

GentlemanJay · 05/12/2023 00:07

I've got a "wedge" from Love Honey. It's great.

QueenVixen · 05/12/2023 09:35

It seems that whenever someone makes a post on here, it is de-railed from the original question.
It is a sex topic for sex related questions, if you don’t like sex or sex related questions then don’t read, it’s really that simple!
Most relationships include sex, so it could also be posted on the relationships forum.

QueenVixen · 05/12/2023 09:37

VelvetVoice · 04/12/2023 08:49

A new, more sexier one is on the way - and I didn’t even know that there were specific sex pillows on the market — so it turns out that the thread is not pointless at all as some bitter women is trying to make it out to be

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Enjoy your new pillow. I had no idea that such pillows existed and it has made me think about getting one, so thanks for the post.

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VelvetVoice · 05/12/2023 20:40

QueenVixen · 05/12/2023 09:35

It seems that whenever someone makes a post on here, it is de-railed from the original question.
It is a sex topic for sex related questions, if you don’t like sex or sex related questions then don’t read, it’s really that simple!
Most relationships include sex, so it could also be posted on the relationships forum.

It was originally posted on the relationship forum as I'm asking more from the angle of forming a new relationship and the sex is one aspect of it, but they took offence over there and it moved to here

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DixonD · 05/12/2023 21:16

VelvetVoice · 05/12/2023 20:40

It was originally posted on the relationship forum as I'm asking more from the angle of forming a new relationship and the sex is one aspect of it, but they took offence over there and it moved to here

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They take offence easily here too!

VikingsandDragons · 05/12/2023 23:11

What do you do with your pillow in between uses? Do they live on the bed or get banished to the back of the wardrobe? I don't fancy explaining that one to the kids when they come in!

WereHereAndItsNow · 06/12/2023 07:48

Hi @VikingsandDragons

Ive had mine for a while pre children and my kids are still primary so they aren’t the issue. My partner on the other hand is conscious of in-laws and upstairs visitors. They currently live on top of a quite high wardrobe and they are in the gear bags that used to come with them (Liberator wedge ramp combo and a toy mount ) which are now an added extra. Unless you owned some you’d never know what they are.The ramp is quite a size and wouldn’t fit in a wardrobe but the wedge would go in the bottom of most or at the side of hanging clothes. If it being seen is a barrier then the Toghage inflatable one maybe the answer and also for travel.

I had been looking at the heart one I mentioned above because it looks a little smaller and I believe you could leave it out without anyone noticing.

I have also been looking at their new Otomans that fold out for a time when teens maybe knocking about and are possibly more discreet but if you have a look at them you will see they need saving for..They also feature on Netflix How to build a sex room.

Hope that’s ok tried to be factual and not over share. Very conscious of some posts about men on this thread. Happy to answer any other questions. Would say it’s worth the investment for women and partners for the benefits well described by the op.

Just in case reads like partner is not fully onboard. They were initially purchased jointly to help with mismatched size differences.

Thisisworsethananticpated · 06/12/2023 08:01

WereHereAndItsNow

gosh that’s an IKEA of sex aids there

you live and learn !

my 13 year old is still traumatised by finding dick pic and a dildo
so no pillows for me just yet 😂

WereHereAndItsNow · 06/12/2023 13:13

@Thisisworsethananticpated

Ha! I am sure IKEA would have a lot more interesting names than wedge and ramp 😳

It going to be an interesting what to do when we have teens. Maybe banking that we’ll be so old that they think we’ve given it up.

However it’s swings and roundabouts (I haven’t got a roundabout) as the “equipment” does have another advantage in that it can get you off the bed and as they are made from high grade dense foam (the cheaper ones less so) they elevate any squeaky bed noises. So worth considering. 🤔

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