Me and DH don’t get an awful lot of time or opportunities to be intimate due to DS’ and life in general. I’ve noticed when we do it has started to get a bit ‘stale’ (samey). Still good but could be better sort of thing and I think DH feels the same way but he’s too nice to say anything. From reading other threads a lot of people suggest light bdsm bit neither of us are in to that sort of thing. Any ideas?
also, DH has a rather large foreskin over his willy so it can take slightly longer for him to get fully comfortable with things