Threesome

[Lookingforlove2022]

Hello,

Based in London how would you safely go about arranging a Threesome?

Myself and partner ( male ) would like to experience Threesome with another female, which are the best sites to visit?

Fabswingers or feeld

As @Wittyusername2000 said, Fab or Feeld. Fab is just for swinging, Feeld is an ENM dating app so be clear what you're looking for - I look for relationships not sex, I get a lot who connect with me looking for a unicorn and that's not me. I would warn, though, that women unicorns are hard to find. A lot of my friends (and me) have gone off the idea through some bad experiences, and I think women may sometimes need more of a connection. I stopped talking to people about it as I was made to feel as though I was more of a toy for the couple's fantasy, and not an equal participant. A better way may be to see if there are any swing scenes in your area, or go to a swing club.

I've had a lot of MFM. I've met them on Fab. I've also found one couple mentions me to another. There's kind of a network thing going on. I've been fortunate. Many men find Fab very frustrating.

Yes networking sums it up very well. If I have partners that have been good I will recommend them to other people, particularly from a safety perspective. Likewise if they're not nice, I'll tell people why they might want to avoid them. I've had a lot of MFMs and moresomes, but only gone ahead with one MFF as I've not found couples easy to get on with to play on my own, I'm more likely to do a foursome with my primary and another couple but even that is hard as all four of you have to like each other.

It's not an exacting science meeting people but when you do and you click.

Fabswingers

Agree with fabswingers but you need to check who you are actually talking to and safe place when you plan anything

Fab swingers is no longer a pleasant way to meet people. There seems to be a disproportionate amount of women on there who are downright rude and unpleasant and have far too high opinion of themselves, and probably struggle getting any male attention out in the real world.

I'm on fab swingers (female) and I've had men accuse me of exactly that. It couldn't be further from the truth. But the moment I unhide my profile, I'm inundated with loads of messages from men close and far away. They don't pay any attention to what my profile says so unless the message relates to what I'm looking for, I ignore or delete it then the abusive messages start.

I've pretty much given up on it but am on Killing Kittens now. It's far more respectful.

Thank you all so much, isn't it all so difficult? 🙂

Anyone been to a Killing Kittens Event?

Killings Kittens is the best site. I used it in the past when my first marriage ended and I wanted to explore being a unicorn. You need to be careful that the woman willingly wants to do it and is not under pressure from her partner. Make sure you speak by phone first. Then Zoom. Then meet up in bar or restaurant before deciding the three of you should go to bed together.

No not yet, they are mainly in London and I'm miles from there but I will hopefully in the new year.

I'm intrigued by Killing Kittens, I don't know whether it's one of the elite ones (I see a lot where you have to be a certain age or look a certain way) and I think it's probably out of my price range. Maybe I need to look at their online groups to see

I'm only using the app to meet people and the chat rooms and that didn't cost much to join. The parties aren't cheap. If you are a single woman they aren't too bad but if you want to take a man, they are very expensive.

I will try one in the new year, probably hedonism, and see how it goes.