Do any men prefer outer labia?

[FlopsyandMopsy71]

God a cringe worthy topic I feel but am interested in opinions. I'm recently separated and have what I describe to be massive fanny flaps! I have felt self conscious of them since childhood really. I have never had sny man say he doesn't like them but then they wouldn't dare really would they?
I just feel so much banter is about women who have perfect genitals and this is backed up by a recent naked attraction I watched (not planned but stumbled on it) the neat fanny was chosen and no one had one with danglies like mine! Please can you give your honest views.

Plenty of men prefer large labia and find them really sexy - really, honestly, truly. Don't be self-conscious or ashamed

Naked Attraction is great in some ways, for showing all body types, but theres always going to be a bias to the porn star aesthetic.

In the real world us blokes are simple creatures, labia size is waaaay down our list of priorities.

Ive been with women with all kinds of shape amd sized labia, it makes no difference to the quality of sex and all are equally sexy!

Just ho on reddit, there are plenty of large labia lovers. And fans for so much more!

It's really helped me to realise that there is a fan base for just about anything!

It honestly honestly doesn’t matter, when you meet someone you meet the person, not the labia, anyone who likes you, won’t care a jot and will want to sleep with you irrespective of anything about your appearance.

when you meet a a men for the 1st time do you immediately think about what his cock and balls might look like?

when you meet a a men for the 1st time do you immediately think about what his cock and balls might look like?

No, but some are less attractive than others to us. It’s silly to pretend they’re not, people have preferences about any number of things. I don’t think it’s true that everyone will want to sleep with them regardless of appearance.

Okay, I'm obviously being naive, but I'm in my 50's and have absolutely no idea if my labia are small, medium or large. It's not a conversation I've ever had with anyone and I don't watch porn or look at other women's bits. I'm happily married and DH has never commented so kind of irrelevant, but now I'm wondering..?🤔

I could tell you that it’s never been an issue for me but it is an issue for you and I was really genuinely shocked how it is for many women when I discovered this when doing my own work.

Here are two resources I found .one is real pictures of many vulvas submitted by women the other is draw illustrations ( to get them on insta) with some heart felt testimonials from their owners.

Really hope this helps as improved body confidence for me = greater happiness 👍

http://gynodiversity.com/index.html

https://www.thevulvagallery.com/the-vulva-gallery

Pa I haven’t chosen the image it’s just come up with the address so apologies in advance if this appears inappropriate but if you visit the sites you will see there about inclusion and not titillation.

@FlopsyandMopsy71 I really wouldn't worry, I have some dangly bits and my husband loves them, I asked him just after reading this and his reply is Men generally don't care, of course you'll find the odd self loathing male/female who will have their own views but it's nothing to worry about or stress about, if you happen to find a partner who doesn't like them then they really don't deserve you.

There's a hole to dig:
Wife: do you think my labia are too big ?
Husband: well I've seen lots and yours are just fine
Wife: wtf ! When ?

Almost as dangerous as the innocent question "does my bum look big in this ?"

I have a FWB with a large labia, to me they’re beautiful. I think of them like butterfly wings. They’re so lovely to kiss, lick and suck. I’m sure your new guy will love the way you look.

What a great description! Butterfly wings! Love it!

Surely the right response from Slartibartfast is: "Won an award, you know. Lovely crinkly edges."

:)

Saw John Bishop on tour a few years ago, talked about naked attraction, made the comment that, back in the day , he and I imagine virtually all men, never once said, sorry love, it’s just not the fanny for me, can’t say personally that the size of labia would be on my list of any sort of priority where women are concerned

After a wax a few months back, my FWB told me that my labia are extremely aesthetically pleasing.

He then said "bearing that in mind, I don't really care how they look, as I'd still want to fuck you"

We then began a conversation about all the labia he'd seen up close and personal. Far more than I had.

It was an absolutely fascinating conversation.

Seriously OP, don't worry. You are so much more to a man than your dangly bits.

I don't know where you're hearing any banter about women with perfect genitals, but don't pay any mind to what's said on Naked Attraction. They're literally trying to fill the airtime and largely talking a lot of codswallop. The info animations alone should tell you that, with their 'our survey said' BS on random daft topics. Better to pay heed to Kathy Burke's classic line about how men would (am paraphrasing) happily shag a ham sandwich. Forget about your labia size and focus on what you really want out of your next relationship.

I would be very surprised if many men would care about this one. Should they do so and be so shallow, it's time to go!

I’ve never given the appearance of my vulva much thought and I’m not sure I ever will. All vulvas have the same bits some are just shaped differently, the same way a males genitals are.

I most definitely have butterfly wings and men have always LOVED them.

They're erotic to me abs such a turn in to have them sucked and pulled about. Embrace them!

Personally I prefer them over the porn star style innie vulva

Personally speaking I love large labia. I could happily play with them all day.

Guy here. Outer labia are absolutely beautiful. I don’t think it’s something to worry about.