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PIV orgasm help

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Loombow · 14/10/2023 06:22

I’d resigned myself to never achieving PIV orgasm but after a chat with a friend who orgasms every time she has penetrative sex, from penetration alone, I’m wondering if there’s a way to teach myself and my partner..anyone done that successfully and care to share tips?

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acpk55 · 14/10/2023 08:25

Not sure this really helps, but new partner uses one of rose style toys on herself ( sometimes I hold it ), during PIV , that seems to work as she has pushed me out a few times

CplT · 14/10/2023 08:57

There's a physiological aspect to it, so you may be designed in a way that makes it difficult. My wife just uses a bullet at the same time as PIV.

Graasspp · 14/10/2023 09:35

Take it slowly and build up the rhythm. It only happens for me in missionary, once nearly from behind but I stopped it too.soon

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Loombow · 14/10/2023 11:42

Thanks for your replies. Physiological aspect is interesting @CplT any idea how you can tell if you’re designed in a way that makes it more difficult? and should therefore focus on using a toy during piv?
I don’t know the rose toys @acpk55 I’ll check them out.
thanks @Graasspp thats useful advice

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Loombow · 14/10/2023 11:44

Meant to ask @Graasspp have you always been able to orgasm like this? As in, has it been something you’ve always been able to do since you started having sex?

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Anotherlurkingmale · 14/10/2023 11:46

Discovered how to do this with other half recently after over 15 years together. What works for us is a modified missionary position with her legs squeezed tighter together and mine directly on top. Hopefully you can find something that works as it is a real game changer when it happens, more intense and longer lasting orgasms - good luck.

CplT · 14/10/2023 13:06

Loombow · 14/10/2023 11:42

Thanks for your replies. Physiological aspect is interesting @CplT any idea how you can tell if you’re designed in a way that makes it more difficult? and should therefore focus on using a toy during piv?
I don’t know the rose toys @acpk55 I’ll check them out.
thanks @Graasspp thats useful advice

Research suggests that your clitoris needs to be within a certain distance from your vaginal opening. The theory is that there is an optimal position to feel sensation of PIV. Although I would think that it's not solely down to this as psychological aspects must also have a part to play.

Whatliesbeneath707 · 14/10/2023 13:27

Have you tried different positions @Loombow, to see if any get you closer to orgasming? Maybe try you being on top where you have a lot more control over the speed and depth. Also, plenty of foreplay beforehand should help. Good luck, and enjoy practicing!

acpk55 · 14/10/2023 14:04

@Loombow

its something like this one, seems to be very effective

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Graasspp · 14/10/2023 15:18

Not sure I had many orgams when I started having sex. But after a few years, yes.

lilkitten · 14/10/2023 16:39

I've never had a PIV orgasm without some other stimulation (either clitoral or anal), but likewise I rarely have a clitoral orgasm without vaginal stimulation either. For me it's always a combination of two things together. Guys love it when I have an orgasm during PIV, which comes about from using a clit toy while we're having sex. They don't care that it's come about from an extra aid, but just how much I'm enjoying it while we're having sex.

Nocturna · 14/10/2023 23:38

Using a clitoral stimulator won’t get you the orgasm you’re after I don’t think as the two feel totally different. A clitoral orgasm is more of a surface, tingly feeling where as a g spot orgasm is a deep, full body experience.
Get him to finger you first, but put two fingers in towards the front of your vaginal wall in a ‘come hither’ motion. When you move to piv, place a pillow or two under your bum as you need him to hit the front wall if that makes sense

Graasspp · 15/10/2023 03:57

For me, piv orgasm kind of comes from the sides of the vagina - particularly the left side. The friction builds up there..... the clitoris extends so far around the vulva if you google an image

So technically I don't think there is as much of a difference between a clitoral orgams and another type as some say. The clitoris is like an iceberg

AlexaAdventuress · 17/10/2023 12:41

I find that mindset has aas much to do with it as a specific form of stimulation. If I'm feeling horny I can come with very little stimulation, but at other times a good long blast with my vibrator is the order of the day. Orgasming from PIV is still a little hit and miss, over 20 years after I started practicing! I got better at it as I got used to having sex.

PeachCastle · 17/10/2023 22:10

Why don't you simply just ask the friend how she does it? Would have been quicker than posting on here.

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