Simultaneous orgasm during 69

[Angelsman]

DP and I having a Sunday morning lie in chatting about ‘stuff’. On several occasions over the years we have managed simultaneous orgasms during PIV. We began to wonder if this would be possible during 69. We think it would be almost impossible to cum at the same time during 69. Any thoughts? Has anyone ever managed it?

Yes, we manage it 95% of the time so it’s certainly possible.

Never happened to me in 69

Yes, I have achieved it before with my wife. But probably only 20% of the time.

Can’t most men control (to a point) when they cum?

It’s no different to cumming during PIV in our experience. If he wants to orgasm at the same time he does, or if he wants to hold out until I have orgasms multiple times he does that.

This is it. We stop and start if necessary until we’re both ready.

There's defo a point of no return depends if your partner listens when you say stop lol

I've not managed it. I feel like I can't use my mouth skills to their full potential while I'm receiving and neither does he. It's one of the reasons I'm not really a fan of the 69.

I’ve heard this before. It’s funny how we’re all so different. 69 is probably our favourite.

Yep, doesn’t always work! 🤣

Yep especially if they pull away and don't realize, once it's on its way you can't stop it , nasty surprise haha

Yep I agree. I don't really enjoy 69 for this reason, there is just too much going on. But then I struggle to cum with oral anyway, even if there is nothing else going on.

I can't focus in a 69. Too many events happening at once. Plus I tend to clench my teeth at the point of orgasm. Could be a deal breaker!!!!

This made me proper Lol , could be a mood ruiner having to pop to a and e after 🤣

@35dadof2kent - Some people are just so hyper sensitive 😀

Totally if it's not hospital worthy you just ain't doing it properly 🤣🤣

I have found a sister!

When I'm focused on him, I'm not focused on me. I can make him orgasm. Or I can stop what I'm doing, so I orgasm. I can't do both.

The point of no return is okay reached on say so in this house.

Orgasms are as much mental as they are physical and with the right thinking a man an hold off pretty much whatever someone else does to or for them. The flip side is that they can also cum quickly if needed.

The physical side is obviously massively important and whatever the mindset a man might not cum thanks to a lazy hand job, but if a man wants to hold off or cum on demand he should be able to do that when needed.

no, it makes me cum much too quickly but I get it as a present sometimes

Yes, I've managed it with several partners. I think it's down to me knowing he's about to cum that's a real turn on so I reach orgasm at pretty much the same time. It's always really explosive too, in more ways than one! 😉😁

Interesting replies and contributions - thank you. We find it it's a bit like trying to rub your stomach and pat your head - tricky. As others have said, difficult to focus on your own 'O' when trying to please your partner.
Having said all that, it's great practising trying to bring about the elusive simultaneous 'O'. :-)

We used to do this a lot before we were married. We were quite traditional and didn't have "full sex" beforehand but which did mean a lot of experimentation - and happy memories!

Coming simultaneously absolutely is possible. Personally I enjoyed it a lot when it did happen and neither of us seemed to have any issues being able to concentrate on two things at once although it was equally nice to take turns. I don't think it was something we were able to "make" happen particularly. We just had to both be in the same place, near the edge, more or less.

Realising I'm writing this in the past tense makes me think it's time for a 69 revival! 😂